ok my advice on this, i just read your post

To her say:

Look i really like you, im a bit confused about whats going on with you saying you love me and then backing off. You need to be honest with me and tell me whats going on.
when you are ready to talk let me know

then just back right off from her

Sit down in a comfy chair on your own, stick some awesome music on, flash back in your head to some awesome experiences youve had with OTHER girls
realise how FUCKING DAM AWESOME YOU ARE -- look within yourself for an awesome state- say to yourself
I dont need to be given happyness from somone else i generate AWESOMENESS from within.
Roll out and Sarge some girls-- get in touch with some old flames -- fuck some chicks and put her to the back of your mind for now.

See what happens
what will be will be -- she is just one chick of fucking millions you can make orbit your awesomeness!

word of hard advice from me-- ive dated a LOT of fucked up nice girls and they will fuck with your head if you let them and they are very difficult to understand ive learned MULTIPLE times the hardway if you invest energy into them they will take you on a magical ride and dump you off it at the end
and you are left wondering what you have done and whats wrong with you and what could you ahve done different
the truth is YOU CAN DO NOTHING DIFFERENT- ITS NOT YOU ITS HER now move on

it wouldnt happen, i dont invest in girls i havent known long.

i would just stop calling her.

it sounds like her ex is on the scene or somethin so she has more emotion invested in him...

when people answer maybe... its leaves unsurity, so u dont wanna leave it incase they still like u & are actually busy... but u feel like the MAY not be interested,

so it leaves ur mind in a loop of wondering, that u cant close off.. and the problem is U CANT ANSWER IT coz u dont have the answers so u make them up!! and run big long stories & in ur mind u mayswell be spending days with this person in ur head continuously. i did this to alot of girls in my quest for knowledge, messed a few up when i was a cunt.

then was affirmed when my ex started usin my own trick on me! haha ITS HORRIBLE

solution. u need to try & stop worrying about an outcome.. u need to sometimes accept things are out of ur control... let them go

and approach them weeks or even months down the line if ever.

peoples frustration comes from the need to resolve NOW... if u can learn to let go... ull be better for it

Good but also this is a double edged sword, somtimes you have to give a shit or else you will miss a golden oppourtunity, but you also need to know when you are flogging a dead horse and to let go.

id say when its fucking 'your' head up and you ahve made a reasonable effort to resolve it THEN its time to leave a bridge standing to her for her to follw you in the future and you need to walk the other way.

ok storytime!

7 years ago (yes i was with my ex at the time- im a wanker) I met a girl, we bonded ended up fucking, i got heavy oneitis with her, she absolutly trod all over my feelings - i spedn every minute of the day checking my phone for a txt off her (it was that bad) -- anyhow she gave me laods of shit, walked over my feelings then told me to get over myself and dont contact her again.

I backed off and walked away (twas hard)

7 years later she sends me an email -- I meet her, shes in a total mess, tried committing suicide 3 times, her last boyf4riend sho she fell for dumped her.
but she opend up to me and i saw the massive extent she was fucked in the head from her past-- her family had her commited, she ended up in councelling.
She came round to my house and literally threw herself at me and i wasnt interested

we are friends now and thats it--she wanted a relationship with me but i wont go there.

the moral is-- what looks good on the surface is often built with bricks of shit and its only a matter of time before somthing triggers it all to come tumbeling down

learn to walk away

She may have gone off you, she may have found someone else, she may just be busy at work, maybe she hasn't trimmed her hairy bush. Who the fuck knows....

...however, it does sound like you're been too needy and this you can control. Remember the guy she was with when we met her - that is you in a months time if you carry on like this (believe me it's not pretty, I got a photo!).

Solution - I doubt it is over, but I would recommend forgetting about her this bank holiday weekend and have fun. They're really are a lot more fish in the sea.

If you've read Motley Crue's autobiography you will know that Pammy didn't want Tommy back until he started dating Carmen.

Ps - Don't worry about being a chode on here. Sometimes you need to flush those feelings out and it's better to flush em here than in front of her or other girls.

we are all chodes it just takes the right girl to bring it out

the same as she is, let it dye out! i wouldnt be honest ... i know i wouldnt

infact im not!! but i dont think its her place to be honest unless your in a relationship... she doesnt owe u anythin.

but then again i didnt say she was in the wrong, just said what i feel is!!

Flex thats a good neg "You look good on the surface but underneath you'r probably made from bricks of shit"

Craigus: my contribution to this ----- after two nights' worth of sarging with us lot this weekend, you will be thinking about the new women you met and kissed/#-closes/shagged.

So, here's to another successful weekend of pick-up and piss-takes. Let's smash it.

Women are not very nice.

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