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21-04-2011, 07:28 AM
Hi guys,
There's this girl who is a friend of my sisters staying over at my house at the moment and she is only here for one night and going soon so I may have missed my chance but bear with me because it's likely she will stay over again. Now she is as close to a 10 as I have ever seen, she is also a bit taller than me and is also 2 years older. I have no experience with women and have no pick up game as well as being a bit scared, I was just wondering if you guys had any advice? Thanks, Rafab     
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21-04-2011, 07:55 AM
if she wont have eaten when she is staying at yours, ask her if she wants to go out for tea with you, have a giggle and get some alchol into both of you.
If she has eaten ask her is she wants to go out for a few drinks or ask her is she wants some wine in your house with you. (there is a drink theme here)
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21-04-2011, 11:20 AM
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21-04-2011, 11:28 AM
I second Legend's post.
Also, there's a shit load of disconnect between these two, poles apart!  You've never played football before and want to immediately win the UEFA Champions League! Get a grip! "no experience with women and have no pick up game as well as being a bit scared" | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | "as close to a HB 10 as I have ever seen"
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21-04-2011, 11:44 AM
I say in light of potential akwardness throw her a bone to see if she steps up to the plate.
-fancy going out for a drink tonight or somthing to eat. no akwardness if she denies you--and if she is really into you it might just go somwhere.
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21-04-2011, 12:30 PM
I agree with Rebus, don't dump on your own doorstep!
But if you're going to, do what Refl3x said and try not to be your sister's creepy brother, don't intentionally find them, and keep it light and funny when you are with them so you're her "laidback brother"
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21-04-2011, 12:50 PM
Erm it makes a big difference to be aware of some pickup principles but where to start I dont know. Just be cool, do not be needy. When you speak to her do not try to seek approval from her. Talk to her about her and listen to what she says. This will shock her bcos most people rabbit on about any link they can find to themselves in a convo. I think he's got to give it a try guys, she's a 10. What if he dies tomorro and passed up the opportunity? worth a go, just don't be needy. do not get upset if it doesnt go well, just laugh about it to yourself. Do not start harassing your sister about her friend. Tell us what happens, cheers.
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21-04-2011, 12:56 PM
I think the answer is in between the two extremes, you want to push your comfort zone to cross the gulf of experience implied by some of the comments above, but going from being the awkward younger brother of her friend, to trying to hit on her, is going to come off incongruent. I'd just be friendly and chill and have a chat with her, lay a little foundation of you being a natural, fun, relaxed guy, don't expect any outcome. Shitting on your doorstep is likely bad at the moment, but in the future when you're a more confident, congruent guy it can actually add sexual tension to do what you seemingly shouldn't. Hence lay some foundation now to be better placed to act later.
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