So when you look back and think of how you had onitis, u hate yourself

and you hate the fact that girl u liked seen u like that.

BUT i was thinkin..., there is a girl who really likes me but i dont like her back...

i dont want her havin to feel onitis, it horrible..

if i had the choice, id let her think i was caught up on her bad, as long as it would make her onitis go away!!

so im not assed what she thinks!! id be willing to look stupid to her, in order to save her the ordeal!!

but ... the thing is

a girl who we don care about anymore, we hate that they seen us to have onitis, yet you wouldnt care if a girl u never cared for thought it!

so whats the difference?? the only difference in it all is you!

so essentially, anytime u get paranoid, worried or bothered about what people think! ...or a girl who u like and u think she thinks your an idiot.


its not what they think, or that they care, its all to do with you, and your mind.....

shit outside of your mind cant cause an emotional response or bad feeling...

only your representation of it can

dunno wer the fuck this stuff springs from lol

Great speech phil, all thats needed now is some sort of formula to make that work, then you are rich!

AJay

I've related to the beginning of your post. My first love lasted 2 years, and then we basically grew apart. She was threatening suicide and shit, so I just went on a cheating rampage and was having fun with every hot girl I could find, and then told her about it all.
Bottom line: She thought I was a complete dick, never spoke to me again. Now shes engaged and happy with someone else and I have also moved on. Win Win

that is why i would be so goot at this PU GURU thing, i have the ability to have people buy into shit that isnt there..

its hapens however, im more interested than helpin people so if i do ever choose that path, it will be with somethin i beleive in & a proven track record

You were a complete DICK for cheating on her. Now you know about this forum community and your own self-development, please don't ever cheat again. Always remember to leave them better than when you find them.

i find that lads who find it easier with women, have better standards

so are more picky

so appreciate a relationship more

so players, contrary to womens beleif, are more faithfull than most!!

I was a dick. I don't cheat now. I was like 15 back then and immature

Sorry but i find this another complete bullshit phrase in the 'Pua' community just as much as i hate things like PUA, HB, AMOG, -- i think its laughable

Ok so you 'pickup' a nice girl (not a slut) use your magical 'Pua' powers and end up 'Fclosing' her -- she then says she really lieks you but you say ohhh i dont want anything heavy.
she feels used and you wander off onto the next bird

leave her better than when you find her..what a total load of shit

thats fucking people justifying to themselves why what they do is acceptable

If you give them some great sex that they will always remember then can they really complain. I would never say I wanted a relationship with them if I didnt or tell them I loved them or any chode b-crap to make them more attached. If anything my friends recommend taking the 'I'[m currently single and dating' frame so that u are openly saying 'I'm screening you, if we;re a perfect match maybe i'll keep you, lets just see how it works out'

I dont disagree. I dislike all these phrases too, so you can see I never used them unless Im referring to someone else's post.

I never said I had any magical PUA powers. I am being my natural self. I am being a very interesting person. I am being a sociable person. I am being the best I can be, yes to attract women. Far from your "online" pickup, hiding behind a computer monitor. I have been on both sides and I know where I would rather be.

Yes, exactly what I said. I had a few fuck buddies in the past (search the forum, you'll know) that I met through friends, gym, etc. I dont just fuck them, I enrich their lives. I treat them well and with respect. If and when they need my help, I help them within reason. I take them out, take them on dates. Been on holidays with them. And yes, they know from the very beginning, I am happy with me being single and I see other girls too. If they want anything serious, and some do, they know I have been honest from the very beginning. Am I justfying anything? I dont think so. You see, there's a different between you and me.

To be honest, the girls who I have SNL are normally looking for that, a lay. I can't see how I am using them. Majority of the time, I dont see them again.

I guess you really dont know me to judge me by your own standard.