I have an inkling lol... good stuff

When reading Refl3x post I thought he was talking in general, not targeting legend

Maybe not. But I feel the need to justify why I said "leave them better when you find them".

This was a General Rant Legend not aimed at anyone in particular

I dont know you from adam so cannot make assumptions about you

In fact my post was just as much of a rant at everyone as it was at myself

I dont advocate anything only that we are what we are.

ive refered to people as HBs to get points across-- still means i fucking hate it when i see it get typed on my computer.
my subcosncious says 'Gareth wtf are you doing'

I just laugh at somone spiining some little shitty reality that they are doing the world a favor by 'playing' loads of women.

Im not doing anyone or anything a favor other than myself-- and i certainly wont sit there with my smokers jacket and pipe talking to my grandkids in the future telling them that ive made the world a better place by shooting my cum all over the place

i dissagree with this mate,

there is a girl i know who i wanna fuck, and she wants me for a boyfriend... an i told her its not happenin,

i could play the game!! and blag it for a bang, but i only fuck girls who know what i want & agree...

i am not a PLAYER, coz i dont play people.... i do however sleep with diff girls with there consent based on the truth.

and all of them are also my freind, i could be on a date & they would all be fine with it!

i dont need sex enuf to be a PLAYER

So Phil,

this girl likes you so much that when you tell her you just want to be casual and be friends she says 'ok' because she thinks that somthing with you is better than nothing with you.
so she plays along and gets all emotionally chewed up inside.

get my point?

another random example
last week a scouse girl came to stay at my house-- pure fuck buddies - i brown wingeg her (at her request) she loved it, had a great night--so much so that she is driving 2 hours tomorrow just to bone me on my lunch break.
we both had fun and enjoyed ourselves-- knowone got hurt-- but still the phrase 'leave them better than you found them' still think its a load of shite
- best case scenario--we ahve a laugh
she certainly isnt a better person for meeting me

yeah, it happens, but how is this my fault???

do u expect me to set my own life aside because there is a chance she may get emotional.

the best i can do is at signs of this let her go. which i do.

(dont get me wrong i used to be a cunt and love havin girls like tha, but i was young and curious, now i just want to have as much happy in my life as i can)

Phil my point is....what we do--whatever the hell that is (what is it???)
isnt all Glory to the world-- people have feelings and get hurt somtimes intentionally or unintentionally.
Its knowones fault-- but it happens somtimes.

I think even if a girl agreed to no strings, she will still get emotional and eventually get hurt. In general, not for EVERYONE