Again thanks for your help guys, also what can I do to make women really attracted to me and want me and come to me? Thanks

Off the top of my head things that will make you more attractive are (see 'The Mystery Method for more detail'):

-Being Healthy/In-shape
-Grooming/Hygeine
-Fashion Sense
-Sense of humour
-Confidence
-Lack of Neediness
-Alpha Male characteristics

However, I interpret your question as though you want the girls to approach you. If you want to get the girls you really want you are going to have to do the approaches more than likely so dont wait around!

Ok cheers, is there any way to get into a situation where women just swarm to you, or something similar?

There is no magic formula or technique but doing everything that has been suggested to you on this thread might help!

The only game I know of that will make girls come to you, is social proof.

If the world around you see you as the coolest dude to hang out with, then you will gain social proof. Read my previous post about how to start working towards that. But I'm sure there are venues around your school who would love to have some student parties etc, make sure YOU are the guy hosting it. Be the guy everyone talks about. Above all, always have fun.

I concur.

Also, re doing interesting stuff, make sure you do it to enjoy yourself and enhance your experience of life. There's no bigger turn off (for anyone) than someone who takes something up to impress other people. The key is to realise you can do anything you like, and that any barrier you perceive is imaginary.

As for becoming a funnier guy, just remember that it's perfectly fine to not be funny at all if it's not your thing. Guys get plenty of pussy without being funny. If you really want to improve your sense of humour, do as Legend said - don't take yourself too seriously. Learn to laugh at yourself. It won't happen overnight, but it's worth the effort. Being in lower 6th is a great opportunity to start an improv class too. Try it two lunchtimes a week in an unused classroom and get your mates along. News will get around that you're the cool mother fucker that set up a wicked improv class and you'll be fighting people off with a stick.

Here's a bit of a taster of what the Manchester boys get up to with their improv:

http://www.puaforum.co.uk/reviews/92...ov-nights.html

Good luck dude

Thanks for all your help guys, could I just ask what's an improv class? Thanks

I believe you're over-complicating things Whistleblower. Confidence and lack of neediness are natural properties of an alpha male (which in turn is the only thing that makes you more attractive to women of value). The others are entirely superfluous. Would you really want to fuck any girl who wanted to fuck you entirely because of your fashion sense or the fact you're wearing Oakley sunglasses? I wouldn't.

Improv classes are a group activity that can be done with any number of people (although it works with more than 3 and less than 10 in a group). It involves getting together to play games revolving around improvisational comedy, the purpose being to have fun and allow yourself to say whatever the hell you like - an important step in allowing yourself to become more alpha. Have a look around the forum, google "improv games", and try to set up your own improv group. It'll unstifle you, improve your confidence and most importantly it'll be a bloody good laugh.

I agree that fashion sense, and probably sense of humour are pretty subjective. But I stand by the fact that you should look healthy and maintain good hygiene. I think if you make yourself look as good as possible you stand a better chance. A confident non-needy guy who is overweight and smells bad cannot stand a better chance than a confident non-needy guy who is in good shape and smells good.

It could be argued that looking after oneself is a trait of an alpha male also. Not that I want to get into the debate about looks again (it's been done to death on countless other posts), but if someone presents themselves authentically then they can have whatever appearance they like and still be successful. Sure, it can't hurt to take care of yourself for your own benefit (health, feeling good etc), but doing it to earn the approval of other people (in the form of attracting women) is counter-productive and comes across as needy.

Let me put it this way - I could name people I know whom, to improve their chances with girls, got ripped. Guys who could bounce pennies off their abs and put me and my string-bean muscles to shame with their toned bodies. Did it increase the number of chicks who wanted to sleep with them? Without exception, no.

I also present, for evidence, Exhibit B - Tucker Max:



I think we can agree he is far from the best looking guy in the world, and far from the most fashionable. But for sheer pulling power, his prowess is one we should all aspire to. If I become half as good at pulling girls as he is, I'll consider myself pretty good. Do you think this guy cares what his hair looks like, what aftershave he uses or what people think of him? If you read one of his stories, you'll see he doesn't.

Besides, isn't it more fun just living life how you want to live it, not giving a flying monkey about what other people think? Christ, if you tried to please everyone you'd end up pleasing no-one anyway so why bother? If people don't like me for the rubgy-hating, beer-belly-sporting, piano-playing bellend that I am, I'm not interested in them.

Neatly, this has lead me on to a thread I've been wanting to write for a while. It'll be on PUA General Chat and it's about breaking down the social conditioning that surrounds others.