BIG challenge!
 

Hi I go to 6th form at school and i'm in year 12. There's a girl in the year above who is the hottest girl in our school and I want to pull her. I've never spoken to her she's not aware of me and she has a boyfriend. On top of this I've never had a girlfriend or done anything with a girl like kissed one. I was just wondering if anyone could take on this huge challenge and make me pull her?

Thanks, Young-Curtis

I actually remember being in that situation at school. I had a crush on this older girl, had no experience with girls. I never spoke to her. I look back now and laugh at how dumb I was. If I could go back to that time would I approach her? maybe. But before that I would be trying to make an effort with the vast amount of other girls that I overlooked. Trust me you will regret not getting the experience when you had the chance!

Maybe one day she will become single and you will have a reputation as more of a ladies man. But for now dont waste your time on one girl who you dont even know!!!

Thanks for your help there's some good advice there. I was just wondering how do I get a reputation as a ladies man and pull girls as I never have done before. Also if there's a way how can I make girls attracted to me? Plus I don't really know how to talk to them and what to say. Any help would be greatly appreciated, thanks

make eye contact with evryone u see, smile at people. Walk upright, exposing your belly and throat. Try to remember the good feelings of self esteem you had when you were between 2 and 4 yrs old and boom you feel them again now. Look for peoples shit tests (pointless instructions to you to make you follow their leadership) and avoid them or throw your own instruction first as a compromise. Dont use high pitched girl-like voice tonality. Watch how people treat you differently.

Thanks very much

Just focus on being sociable to begin with. Make an effort to talk to people you dont normally talk to, say hi to people, use there first names to build rapport. Go to all the parties/social events that you get invited to. Join after school clubs and sports teams if there are any you like or think you might like. Learn to not give a fuck what people think of you! By the time you leave school and move forward in life you will realise how insignificant most of the people at school were.

In terms of what and how to talk to girls there is a massive amount of information on this forum and elsewhere. Most of all just try to be a fun and interesting person in your general day to day life and you will have things to talk about.

This is the advice I would give myself If I was sixteen again, I saw a lot of myself in your original post! Hope it helps!

you probably don't realise it now but school / 6th form is easily one of the most target environments that you will find yourself in. Just go for it and have a laugh brother

Some people on this forum dislike AFC Adam, but I'll throw it out there anyways.

He runs something called Social circle game, or Entourage game. Big part of that is be the guy that makes things happen. Organize events, parties, etc. Your social proof from that is astounding.

I do it to a lesser degree, but it works so well. If you are the guy that gets into bars free cause you know everyone. You get spoken to all the time by people etc, people will start wondering who you are. It's insane how well it works, especially in a school situation.

Also Maxemillions advice on confidence is gold.

Where are you based? There is bound to be someone who lives around you who can show you some ropes. I don't know what age Sixth form is, so hopefully I'm not giving PU Advice to a minor here :D

Thanks a lo for your help guys, and yeah I'm 16 so of age and I'm from Kent. I was also wondering if anyone had any tips of how to be interesting and converse well with girls. Also how do you be funny? Thanks again

Mate,
I wish I found this PUA thing when I was 16. You are lucky. It is easy to be interesting - personally, it is having life experience and hobbies. Girls love it when guys talk about the places they have travelled. So go Travelling if you can. Take up interesting hobbies. Surfing, scuba diving, martial arts, rock climbing, improv class, learn an instrument, etc etc...you get my drift. Being funny is a gift I think. But it can also be learnt (maybe). I cant really advice on that. Maybe join a comedy club, watch videos, interact, dont take yourself too seriously. Good luck!