Please explain how the hell you came to the conclusion, that i cared what other people were thinking in this situation.

Approaching them having them following me and leaning into me, was an example of what a good approach can be, you were reading into it to much, it had nothing to do with what anybody else thinks, merely explaining how it looked.

Your adding meanings to things that aren't there.

You don't get it. A girl can't reject a person she doesn't know. She can reject his approach, thats it.

She can't reject him because she doesn't know him or what hes about. She doesn't know what his job is, his beliefs, his personality. All she can judge him on is his appearance and his approach. A random skank in a club should therefore never have a lasting effect on anyone.

I no exactly what you mean

This is actually something mystery said, but its not really true because, he did express an certain aspect of his personality, his inability to make her feel comfortable during his approach, reflects on him, the approach is him.

That statement was created so these guys could feel better about rejection.

What if the guy is fuck ugly, she doesn't no him,yet she will reject him,how you appear and how you approach is part of you.

The point here is, i was only explaining the effect using good body language can have, i dont care how it looked, simple as that.

I believe in my own experiences, and i have never had anything anywhere near as bad as that, and its impossible to get rejected with the right beliefs.

Everything i say is based on my own journey, I dont just blindly believe in what others say.

Do you not think that not leaning in is good advise to give some one thats about to start cold approaching. Because it will reduce the risk of bad rejection like the one i stated, and will make yourself less threatening and increase the chance of making her feel more comfortable with you.

lol, then your blind.

If you were out yeah,and some guy came up to you, to talk to you and he was standing toe to toe, just couple of inches away from you, how would you feel.

More or less threatened, than say he was standing a few meters away,facing away from you.



Violence and WAR

Zone

personaly beleive it was made as a hook... And worked WELL

I believe that aswell

I think the point he's making is not to invade someone's 'personal space' very early on in the interaction. But it depends on the person, some people don't like it, others don't mind it.

Am talking about body language as a whole, not just leaning in.

And if the guy wasn't leaning in,she wouldn't and couldn't of pushed him away.

I shouldn't even be explaining myself, this is just common sense, like a lot of the advice given.

Just because mystery teaches good body language, you denie it, how can people trust your advise when it seems to be based on irrational biased thinking.

Not standing toe to toe 2inches from someone is hardly something Mystery needs to tell you is it Zone? This is not a common issue facing guys, more that they are afraid to escalate as far as this (i.e. don't feel worthy).

There could be a number of factors that someone gets told to piss off by a girl. Perhaps the girl is in a bad mood, perhaps she just doesn't like the way you look or coe across, etc. Anti-rejection techniques in won't make you invincible to rejection I'm afraid. Again it is not tackling or helping your overall game, it is just protecting your ego / reputation from being tarnished.