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Default 03-08-2010, 12:01 PM

Let me ask you a question.

Do you think body language,can have an effect both positive and negative, on a person that is approached?.

Yes or No
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Default 03-08-2010, 12:40 PM

Zone, I understand what you're trying to say with leaning in. If you lean in to someone, you can invade their personal space and they may feel uncomfortable or intimidated.

However, I think a lot of us feel leaning in allows for a greater sense of intimacy and its just a matter of how and when you do it so it doesn't come off creepy or invasive. A lot of it is confidence.
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Default 03-08-2010, 12:46 PM

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I think a lot of us feel leaning in allows for a greater sense of intimacy and its just a matter of how and when you do it so it doesn't come off creepy or invasive. A lot of it is confidence.
Exactly. We should not be telling people to be cautious for the sake of not getting blown off and to protect our egos. It does not help those who don't feel worthy enough to escalate.


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Default 03-08-2010, 02:38 PM

I believe the theory behind not leaning is to subcommunicate that you are not needy. Thus you become higher value. Plus if she leans in she is working for you, which again = higher value. And some 'gurus' think the harder she works and the more she invests in the interaction (once hooked), the more attracted she'll be.

However, like everything I'm sure it's effectiveness will be situational.

But there's probably no 'one true way' to this stuff. What works for one might not work for another. And there's never going to be any empirical proof that it works anyway.
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Default 03-08-2010, 11:07 PM

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I have qualifications that say otherwise and I'll put more weight on British academia than the opinion of some anonymous angry internet poster who can't even back his charges
The fact that you hold so much importance on academic intelligence is not surprising.

While i hold more importance on emotional intelligence, the ability the think rationally, without being to effected and controlled by there psychological motivators, which will limit true mental growth, and corrupt the mind.

I find actually find people that hold to much importance on academics primitive.
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Default 03-08-2010, 11:14 PM

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The fact that you hold so much importance on academic intelligence is not surprising.

While i hold more importance on emotional intelligence, the ability the think rationally, without being to effected and controlled by there psychological motivators, which will limit true mental growth, and corrupt the mind.

I find actually find people that hold to much importance on academics primitive.
lol. I actually found this really funny because you obviously tried very hard to type in a 'smart' way despite saying you do not value academic intelligence.

You seem to think everyones got something against you. Chill man.
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Default 03-08-2010, 11:17 PM

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its just a matter of how and when you do it so it doesn't come off creepy or invasive.
Yeah like most things, but if a guy has good enough social intelligence to do this well, he would never of needed to come on this forum.
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Default 03-08-2010, 11:22 PM

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lol. I actually found this really funny because you obviously tried very hard to type in a 'smart' way despite saying you do not value academic intelligence.
It took like a minute to write that, and spell checker did most of the work.

I didn't say i didn't value it,just not as important as most think.

Putting words in me mouth.

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Default 03-08-2010, 11:27 PM

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I believe the theory behind not leaning is to subcommunicate that you are not needy.
thats one of a few reasons
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Default 03-08-2010, 11:39 PM

Don't wanna speak to you hippy gay improv guys any more.

Surprised you get chance to talk to any girls with all the cock suckin you do.
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