35 year old virgin

[Bunch of Twigs]

I've been studying pick up a lot for about three or four months and have been out practicing with it, with more success than I thought I would get. My problem is though I can a approach a girl and get talking to her and get a lot of interest but I only take it so far.

I'm still a virgin and I keep thinking if I get to take them home and it becomes apparent I've no experience what's going to happen then, as im 35 and its going to freak them out and im under the impression girls like an experienced man.

I often feel really low and feel I've left it far to late I've changed a lot from the man I used to be I used to be extremely shy and hide away and now I don't. Sometimes wonder if its going to be impossible for me.

Anyone any ideas?

[Stein]

Yeah, you might be rubbish first time. Then again you might not be.

Or what's the other option. You just don't get laid ever? At some point you'll have to do it with someone, for better or worse, regardless of who or how. Better that it's some one night stand where it doesn't really matter.

[Sugarspin]

Totally agree, welcome and awesome you are taking steps to do something about it.
You will get some opportunities and some early experiences may be crap, not what you envisaged, but it's the only way you get better and comfortable when it's on.
Be open minded about the types of girl you previously thought you liked/wanted too etc.
If you really are anxious about fluffing it when in front of goal kamagra can be a short term emergency option to get hard and over the line- but not to be relied upon or used regularly.
Have fun.

[dan300]

This is just an idea, but if I were you I would arrange a meeting with a high class escort. You will get your cherry popped hassle free, & you won't have to worry about "performing" or being inexperienced. You could even tell her you've never had sex before since there will be no social paranoia that everyone is going to know about it by the girl telling all her friends or anything. You'll leave a newly deflowered man & you won't carry that tag of being a virgin anymore.

That's what I would do. It's easy mate just go on a site, find a hot woman who isn't too far away (or maybe far away if you're a bit paranoid about it) & just call the number. It's so easy, I did it as an experiment about a year & a half ago that my mate dared me to do, AND he paid for. It averages about £80 per half hour & the women are top quality.

You could have your cherry popped tomorrow.

[top-hat]

I would just convince myself that I'd need to get it over and done with. It doesn't matter if the girl is enjoying herself or not(clearly she must have not said no). As long as you get your nob in, it's all good. After that then do as you want. For me it was just getting it out the way for better things to come, with the same girl or with others.

Escorts do not help nor hinder you mentally, wheras having sex with someone you "seduced" does a world of confidence for you, especially your first time.

[virg31]

Mate I just want to share with you my experiences, I'm a 31 year old Virgin that hasn't even kissed yet almost kissed a bar girl in ibiza when I picked her up span her around and went in for a cheek kiss she went in for a makeout i lips met i was confused and it went awkward lol. after two years of game i have had several opportunities with hot girls but was too nieve. I'm good looking short(5'8) muscular British indian and look young for my age but that doesn't count for much women only notice my physical appearance when my game got good. My current problem is im too validated with the quick attraction and arousal I build thanks to structured mystery method style game. As a virgin I behave and sound like a confident centred alpha male I out game guys who are non virgins I get numbers from hotter girls and right now I dance with hot girls at my salsa class and I'm just not worried at all about sexual performance,I reckon I will be a force of nature when it comes to sex bbecause of my salsa hips. My point is sex a natural instinct, just indulge in it when you can like eating tasty food. I genuinely believe I'm going to be better in bed than my non virgin freinds. My point is you just need to change your mindset.

[Bunch of Twigs]

Tried an escort a couple of times in the last few weeks couldn't stay hard enough to make entry even though I took a Viagra, suppose if I keep trying it ill get less nervous and hopefully it will happen, cant afford to keep doing that for to long though. Once I've actually done it all the way a few times ill be more confident to go further with the pick up.

[Sugarspin]

Man I feel for you, you must be crazy anxious.
Hope I'm not stating obvious things here but really want you to get over the line, few thoughts...
Have you tried different condoms- they can vary enormously in size and if they are restrictive cut blood flow
Did you do what Dan300 said - come clean with the lady about the situation and your experience or did you try and front it?
Was it a comfortable and none time pressured environment rather than a car or something?
Did you de-stress as much as possible, bath, shower, deep breathing beforehand etc?
Did you mix alcohol with the viagara?
Sorry if any of this is obvious we just want to help you mate, you're probably anxious as hell and none if this is a problem, truly it isn't!

[top-hat]

Trolls gonna troll

[top-hat]

Would you rather take advice to become a businessman from the tesco checkout girl or a businessman?