Well I asked her out and she says next week is good..anyway, we'll see! I've played it cool, kept it light and a little flirty. I'm not getting my hopes up..I'm well aware girls this hot get a lot of interest thrown their way.

Well..this looks like it's died on me. Momentum has just slowed right down, and it's funny cause she definitely seemed into me. I'm going to try a double text tomorrow (that is, I was the last one who text without reciprocation), if it pans out then great..

The issue definitely has been;
-not enough rapport built on initial interaction, she was attracted definitely, but we didn't talk enough. I should have escalated physically and asked her for a moment to chat alone.
-Considering the above point, I have been far to chilled with texts, probably given off player vibe, especially considering she was the one who initiated our interaction and showed high levels of interest initially. Definitely shouldn't have played it so cool!

So my options are; text her tomorrow like nothing happened and play it cool..Or come straight out and express high levels of interest, complimenting her on something other than her looks obviously. I did actually get the impression she was a cool, fun girl, not up her own ass like a lot of them.

Any opinions guys?

in ur head.

do you like blondes?

brunettes?

your 10 and my 10 are different. so hot is an illusion.

the only variable is you. it depends on the girl.

'hot is an illusion' I like that

Although everyone I've asked has said she's super hot too haha. Interestingly, she's not at all my type. Apart from her eyes...I noticed those things from across the room.

You have seen "The Notebook" too many times...

Is that the one were the mad scientist burns the girls eyes out with a blowtorch?..good film

This is the kind of shit you should be texting.

haha yeah?

Oh wait that's hostel..I got confused, notebook is the one which makes me want to burn my own eyes out with a blowtorch.

Get used to this. Girls will loose interest even though they thought you were the coolest guy in the room when they met you.

Im going through this at the minute, i was bored on facebook one night and started messaging this girl who is drop dead gorgeous. one thing lead to another and ended up with her number. the first two days were getting to know each other and working out her interests.

Each text was a huge paragrah and i was just going with the flow.. i wasnt thinking about what i was texting and how to structure it i was just being me and if she doesnt like that shit she can get the fuck out the way.

There is no point in being anyone else other than yourself.

anyway.... we chatted for 2 - 3 days solid and realised she has a busy few weeks ahead. i played with the idea of a date and she was so game. we arranged for in a few weeks as she has alot on at the moment. my issue now is that when we do chat its boring shit becuase im just waiting to take her out. i dont want her to loose interest but i cba texting for the sake of it. i feel like im going to ruin things because i have this time to fill until we eventually meet up.