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18-08-2012, 07:39 PM
im thinking how do u deal with situations like these...
u meet a bird online (dating site), she chats, seems like shes diggin u, she gives you her fb and tells you to add her.. you add her to fb.. no acceptance what would you then do? the prideful man in me is like "fuck it, no bother shes not even that hot".. but i think its the wrong attitude to take.. simply because it gives me nothing. then another part of me is thinking "lets just follow it up.. i've got nothing to lose and something to gain"... but then my pride is fighting me saying nononono don't do that, ur the man! this shit is beneath you! anyway what do you guys do in these types of situations? i remember my buddy one night met this bird, couldn't remember what she looked like. he texted her a few nice texts, she answered the first ones then stopped. he waited til the end of the day the i told him hand me ur phone and texted her going "look.. i was really drunk last night.. i don't know what u look like but we evidently made out so could u give me ur facebook and we can check eachother out  x" and she responded, he banged her at the end.    
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18-08-2012, 10:30 PM
Usually with online dating I take the assumption from the start that we are going on a date, skip straight past facebook to numbers and a date.
I have a 60% success rate with replying to first messages and probably a 80% success rate on getting a date with those that do. Most of the time we usually have a "fun" date planned, time, place and telephone numbers before they even get round to asking my name...
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19-08-2012, 07:24 AM
Ok these are two from the last 2 weeks where one specifically had to ask me my name after agreeing to go on the date and the other had to ask me my name at the start of the date.
1.jpgErm One of these is from a graphic designer (the long one) and we are about 8 messages in (4 each) and it's escalated into sending eachother essays. We met up, had a drink, discovered that she was the aunt of a girl who I used to work with, lead to some forplay however I found her a little boring so that was that 2.jpgthe shorter once is from a Doctor of Psychology who used to be a professional ballet dancer. This messages were the 7th & 8th in, still seeing her as she is stunning, slightly ditsy but great fun (and very intelligent) EDIT: Both of these were on OkCupid not POF. I tend to go through phases of favouring 1 more than the other - POF gets more results, OkCupid gets better results. Plus I just wanted to brag about the second girl, seriously her legs & body are awesome, she's very nearly one of my 10s...
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19-08-2012, 11:23 AM
thats pretty great... how long are your messages though?! is this how online dating goes?
I really thought online dating was like 2-3 lines of text or something like that as opposed to exchanging essays. thats awesome success no doubt man! how do you open them? i feel on POF my response rate is pretty shitty (i'd say like 60% and i don't message a lot of girls since i'm being a tad too picky). im getting frustrated because im getting less attention online than i do in real life from girls who'd usually be digging it (i know that sounds really shitty but i'm just being honest). dale have u got facebook or something? i'd love to have a chat with you... PM me or summat if you have a bit of spare time for a chin wag. (fb close lololol) btw.. when i asked u for screenshots, i didnt mean for proof but to see how u did it. those shots dont really show me that much... i.e. say from opening -> close.
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19-08-2012, 11:31 AM
kelly323428/19/2012 12:16:40 PM
hey x JS8/19/2012 12:27:11 PM Hey! How're you? I see you do a lot of MMA! I actually do quite a lot of fighting, specifically thai boxing myself.. x kelly323428/19/2012 12:31:15 PM cool i do that too x thats from my buddies account literally like the girl is fucking boring.. what is the point? lol
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19-08-2012, 01:13 PM
1st. Girls that reply with short, closed ended sentences - BAIL.
2nd. Get them to add YOU on facebook. e.g '...let's take this over to fb, much easier. put ********@hotmail.com into fb search. maybe catch up on there x' Getting them to search using your email registered to your fb account eliminates the excuse of not being able to find you because there are so many 'Joe Bloggs'. If they are interested in you any more than replying to your pof msgs just for the sake of it, they will add you. Otherwise, be grateful you saved yourself a shit load of time that i'd bet 50 to 1 would have been wasted getting nowhere.
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19-08-2012, 01:45 PM
I think as superstar pointed out, you have to be selective in who you decide to message.
I message girls who I have an interest in, who I would want to spend time with not just physically. I usually dont go for long essays however if you get along, the message just starts to break off into lots of little topics. I just play it by ear if I'm honest, no hard or fast rules 
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19-08-2012, 01:45 PM
1. totally agree with u.
2. that email thing is amazing.. do u drop them a message after they've accepted or added you? or if they message you, they're on it? to a girl i know through friends, i'll write on her wall going hi thx 4 da add u r so preetii xoxoxox as a joke and to take the piss. she will dig it, her mates will like the post then she'll message me being like LOL OMG.. but online if i do that, i'm pretty much sure she'll think im a creep because she doesn't really know what i'm about. if i get a girls number at a bar - ill text her on the night for a possible booty call, then in the next day sometime to organise a date if possible. online however has so many different fucking factors its confusing..! what're ur guys general tried and tested gameplans for POF/FB/number close/etc.?
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22-08-2012, 06:12 PM
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