Give me you number

"i dont know if i should"

Oh just shut up and give me the number

And think the following


Its not up for debate

This is how it is, and thats how its going to be, im in charge, im bossy if u dont like it go find some lad who will put up with u not doin as ur told, coz as far as im concerned,

its either you do as your told, show me respect, and i may let u make a decision now and then.

if you decide not to do as ur told, i wont get mad, or angry or throw a fit ill just let u get on with it and find somethin else to do

if you get mad, or angry or throw a fit ill ill say Awww there there, then laff at u and either make a joke of it or just leave u to calm down untill u grow up


"The above is MTFU attitude"

Sounds like a good mindset to have when doing ur "30 days not giving a shit" plan or whatever it was called.

Im gunna do it a month or two after i move to belfast. Not gunna do it the first month cos its a new place & i wont be familiar with how things exactly roll & dont want to end up gettin shot or sumthin.

Exactly Philip, exactly

if i may just add; then reinforce it with the next one, and the next, and the next, >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >>

Pussy!!!

uncertainty is an uncomfortable position. But certainty is an absurd one.

Hahahaha im not a pussy.

In belfast there is a fine line between being safe or not, just by walking round a corner into an area of different religeon. Not that religeon bothers me i have mates on both sides, im neutral. But in belfast some areas do have issues with outsiders entering their turf.

Ok, but what the fuck has that got to do with what Phil said?

I dunno, i got carried away lol

I think i meant sumthin along the lines of bein a cunt to the wrong mans girl or sumthin, & then bein shot.

No trouble manning up on this end, looking at it from a Newbie perspective and I guess looking back and thinking could I have got to where I am with a more efficient route

So the advice is fake it till you make it...

Not really. If a guy does something he's not done before, is that faking it?

a guy who is a badass muthafucka may see a pussy trying to be different and think they are faking it. A pussy may try being different and it could feel like this IS how to be, or at least a step in the right direction.

so i guess the point is explore what you can be

It depends whether it's consitent with his personality and his actions.
WhenI flew a plane, that wasn't faking it.
However if I started acting like Phil, it isn't consistent with my personality and I would indeed be faking it.

That definitely is the point, however there has to be a better peice of advice other than stop being a pussy and man up.

It's inspiration and guidance that got me to where I am, not an ambiguous statement from people who had already figured it out. Is it better to dangle a carrot or crack a whip?