Tuesday,
One situational approach
I cycled past a couple of chicks trying to get into a house with their keys getting stuck.
One skinny blonde with a curvier brunette, and it was the brunette I was after.
They had their car parked nearby, so I knew they were legal.
I stopped nearby on the path opposite and milled around for a bit deciding on whether to approach or not because I deemed the situation to be too distracting for an approach.
I cycled up the road and bumped into an acquaintance at the bus stop, so we chatted and he suggested that I go and approach after all.
They were still trying to get into the house, so I parked my bicycle and walked up to them.
As I was walking up, they approached me for help with lock, to which I agreed.
I jiggled the key in the lock a bit, moved it back and fourth and it unlocked with ease.
Up on unlocking the door, they were thrilled and thanked me a lot.
I turned to the brunette and said ''But wait, now I have to take you for a coffee
''
Unfortunately this was met with a flat ''no''.
Which was a bit awkward, but they were still very thankful afterwards.
I wanted to cut to the chase on this one, I know I should have asked them a few questions, built comfort, etc, but I didn't want them to disappear with all their luggage into the house before I'd had the opportunity to make my intentions known.
I try to remind myself when it goes awkwardly that these rejections are good and that I need them in order to progress.
I guess I could have drawn them into a conversation but it was a work night, I wanted to get home and I'd already wasted time milling around not approaching, so I just had to get it off my chest.
If I am to ever meet women, it's situations like this that I must make the most of.