You're the one who's always going on about worrying about it man

You really can't tell the difference between say a 17 year old and a 34 year old? You for real?

Those particular posts were from back in 2014, and were probably more of an excuse than anything.

It's not an issue now as I've long since realised that in reality it's pretty easy to tell who's about 20+, which is completely reasonable to approach. I'm 33 and have no issue with it.

If she turns out to be 18, I'm still completely comfortable.

Part of me believes you’re harmless. An even larger part of me hopes so

youll be building pyramids next and responding in emojis

Reread tony77's hand wringing I quoted "man"

Pleading with me not to approach women who "look" young.

The prettiest ones always do.

You might be comfortable but that comes with experience.

As a newbie it's quite worrying having non PUA people trying to judge you for approaching women at every opportunity, let alone ones significantly younger.



Anyway, after boxing, on my cycle ride back and high on adrenaline from an insane workout, I made three approaches as dusk was falling.

Well, 2 and 1/2 maybe. Bear in mind this was as dusk was falling so I was a bit hesitant to approach in case they assumed I was a rapist.

Approach 1


Indirect asking for directions

Liked a chick's figure, got closer, grill was rough, age was older than I'd normally go for (mid 30s).

I am mentioning this one because she stopped DEAD to talk to me and I was making a point of looking into her eyes.

There was definitely some sexual tension in this one despite the boring subject matter, her face was a semi smirk throughout the interaction.

I bet she was beginning to moisten around her groin area. I wouldn't have minded to go back to her flat (it was in the rough part of town) and give her a good seeing to.

But after the brief conversation about directions I bailed because of her grill which was mostly crooked and yellow. Maybe I should have stayed in this one a bit longer and played with the prey to see how long I could keep it there.

I notice the ones that wanted me to stay normally say "byeeeeeee" after me.

Approach 2

Now this one is a PRIME example of why you should approach even if you are unsure of age.

I was pedaling up hill, saw this nice chick. Wasn't sure about her age at first.

I parked my bike next to a lamp post and ran back down the hill after her.

I opened with "I'd just like to compliment you on your figure...but I'm not sure how old you are"

To which she replied "I'm 21", which actually made me a bit more nervous because that is prime age and then I knew the game was on.

She was quite receptive and went on to ask me what I was doing and I don't think I even answered, such was my lack of state just after being surrounded by a couple dozen sweaty men.

It was such a bad approach, she was twisting her neck around to talk to me, before that I was standing in the road to give her some space but then cars came.

She said she was going to meet with some friends.

Then I was like "Oh, is that down in such and such" and she was like "Nah, just around their house"

Then I kinda froze on the spot and people where coming towards me so I closed with "Right I'd better let you go before this gets too weird".

She thanked me for letting her go and then I walked back to my bicycle somewhat confused.

I probably shoulda gone for the number but I wasn't really expecting to approach and I wasn't expecting her to be receptive.

But my learning experience from that was that I thought this woman might have been 16 when it turns out she was actually 21.

And I've had vice versa, approached a 16 year old who I thought to be early 20s, not once but twice and the second time she told me off.

Approach 3

Saw a chick walking, instructed her to "Wait!" she looked but didn't stop, so I told her anyway that "May I just say, you look splendid." To which she said "Thanks" and carried on walking.

She was probably married, late 20s I'd say.

Didn't re approach due to time of night.

Possible approach 4

A group of 4 chicks at a traffic light, it went red as I was cycling up to it so I stopped and they laughed and said "Thank you".

I laughed back but I didn't know how to approach them before they went into a restaurant.

I just feel like I'd have been ripped apart like a rag doll, they were early 30s I'd guess, quite elegant looking.

I wasn't really sure how to address the whole group.

Plus one of them was fat so I couldn't do my usual "I'd like to get to know you all better".

Possible approach 5

Early 20s nice blonde tanned curvy chick in Aldi.

There was an older couple with a trolley near her which I initially thought to be her mum and dad, but turns out they weren't.

I didn't even open her direct or in direct, I shoulda said something but after a minute she walked off to the checkout to buy her stuff and I couldn't approach her when she was in a line of people all in ear shot!

So I let that one slip.

Aldi is a really close quarters situation and I just can't bring myself to approach in that place.

But one thing I did notice was how many chicks were out on a warm summer's evening!

I'm kicking myself for letting a couple sets slip, I coulda had 5 approaches in a single Wednesday evening.

I tend to rest on my laurels after a few approaches, especially if they have been good ones as I don't want to overshadow them with bad experiences.

Roll on Saturday when I can go out and hit the streets for some focused approaching!

Look, man. You just have to get away with killing one girl. Then you can keep her on ice and cut her up, one-handed while you masturbate, consuming her bit-by-bit for the remainder of your life. If you make a pact with yourself to only get your sustenance from this one kill, you'll be dead soon and only one girl will have suffered. Then it's all gravy for the rest of humanity.

#minorityreport

That's probably the best option for your future.


Peace,

kowalski

Some of the things you say are hilarious.

I can't remember what I was going to say now, but...

Don't approach girls the way you are, you're freaking them out.

Right, I was going to be starting as a 999 call handler/dispatcher in September, unfortunately due to incidents at my previous two jobs my application has been terminated at the last minute based on my references from said previous jobs.



I just read the email on my tablet on the train home and I sure as hell don't want to continue working on a building site.

So as you can imagine my state was thrown.

Despite this bad news, I tried two approaches

Approach 1

I saw a hot chick in Sainsbury's again, she was pushing a trolley. Initially I thought she was 16, but why would a 16 year old child be pushing a trolley if they didn't have a car?

I went to approach her and as we locked eyes I just couldn't say anything because she looked too young!

So instead we had a brief moment of sexual eye contact but I didn't say anything at all. At which point I decided to leave the store as soon as possible due to feeling extremely uncomfortable with what I had just done.

Now I think about it she was probably legal and went back to load her car up with shopping after that weird encounter.

So I missed out on a stunner because I thought she might have been underaged, despite pushing her own trolley

Approach 2

Older chick, early 30s. Went up to her, she responded positively but didn't stop, so I gestured to her and said "Wow".

After which she increased the pace of her walking and ignored me.

Not sure why someone would take a compliment badly as I was GIVING value, not taking value.







So a dark day but I wish I'd gone through with the first chick in Sainsbury's but when I looked at her face I thought for a split second that she was 16 or even 15!

She was probably 18 and that is my preferred age but I can't keep passing them up at this rate, if some under 18's get caught up in my approaches then so be it!

I just don't want any repercussions from bystanders, that's my main fear. I know people like to jump to the "pedo" conclusion these days and take vigilante action.

Next time if I see a girl who's age I'm not sure of I should just do a non committal "Hi".

But in the moment it feels so wrong to even approach when they could be as young as 15 or 16 and I feel like everyone's watching me and waiting to pounce on me and kill me.

I approach them in a confident and masculine manner, which commands their attention.

Would you rather I approach like a pussy?

We'd rather you went on hunger strike till appropriate help arrived... or not, what's the difference?


Peace,

kowalski