Yes Sha it's the same guy and he's very good imo. I am learning from him big time. I've told him straight he could and should have a future in coaching.

so this afternoon I had a 4 hour date with a woman I asked out through tinder.

This morning I woke up with a boner thinking about her. In person she was a lovely person and we had a great convo but I felt no sexual attraction to her whatsoever.

If we had got very drunk I think I could have had sex with her but she doesn't drink alcohol because she is Turkish. So that explains why she is on Tinder searching for something she'll never find.

However sad you think you might be there are sadder women out there. It's much worse for them because they are women.

FFS be grateful you are a man.

A word on night game which I still dabble in.

All your excuses for not talking to girls are bullshit and you know it!

I was out in a bar tonight and didn't open two girls next to me cause I thought they didn't want it. By the end of the night they were trawling the bar looking for any dork thy could find. Then I was kicking my own butt!

Stop making excuses and approach.

Thinking they didn't want it is a bit silly. You aren't a mind reader man.

Also, when they were trawling the bar trying to hook up why didn't you go over to them?

Might have got a threesome, ya never know.

I asked 2 lesbians last Saturday night could I join them. They said no but thanks for the interest.

On a side note about last Saturday night there was this new guy met up with us who's been on our Facebook group for a while. As I talked to the lesbians he's stood there watching & says to the blonde one I'm talking to "he told me over there wait until you see this I'm gunna go over there chat up this blonde & take her home & shag her on my bed with electric blanket"

Yes, he actually said that.

I got him to repeat it, a few times, because I couldn't fucking believe it. I knew I had very slim chances with the lesbian so I was basically just having a laugh with her, but this fool tries tooling me for no reason other than to obliterate whatever was going on. He is a lucky guy that this wasn't some really hot chick that I was doing well with. He'd quite possibly have stumbled away with a broken nose.

He did similar a few weeks ago on my mate, the guy who started the group with me. They had been chatting to girls & my mate pulled, somehow the guy got the girls number too (I think it was that the girl got his number so she could get my mates number, or something like that) & as my mate is with her later they are making out & wot not, when she recieves texts from the guy slating & my mate, running him down & saying he was up to no good & only trying to use her or whatever variations of bullshit.

Both these incidents happened on the first night we met the guy. I knew him less than an hour!

So myself & my "co-founder" 😂 of the group had a chat the next day & decided to remove him from the group as well as banish him from being part of anything we get up to. And told him this. Were we going to let this slide & allow it to happen for a third time? Nope. His excuse was mumbles of "it's just banter" blah blah blah. Bullshit, you're fucked up in the head. Fuck off.

Serendipity if you are willing to do what it takes to succeed why don't you take people's advice from here? You know dating girls isn't the big uphill battle of 'improving' that PUA makes it out to be. It really isn't. Most of it is about pushing yourself into situations and going for it, being normal and keeping at it. How many chumps do you see with girls in the day and on nights out? Tonnes. Come on man open up to replying and say what's up. After all the bullshit everyone is here to help each other. People wouldn't reply to you and offer advice if it wasn't because they know you can make it.

I'd of got the lesbians to femdom fist his asshole.

Walking like a penguin for days.

Update...

Great sesh with Luth yesterday. 31 approaches, about one every 4 minutes. Many stopped and chatted. I was going for the win.

He's doing great work with me pushing me out of my comfort zone and getting me to correct things. It's starting to make a difference.

21 approaches in daytime today a few at night.

Luth is getting me there.

I got a number from a gorgeous young (23yo maybe) Catalonian girl who was texting outside a shop in Oxford St. She was so keen I had a feeling she'd flake. I've noticed that. I never had to challenge her at any point, bad sign.

One girl waved me away when I tried to stop her with "No I saw you doing it to other girls". I responded with "doing what, talking to them?"

One girl said "Sorry but I'm in a rush!". I said with a mock serious face "why...did you leave the iron on?"

It's strange but the only girl I got aroused while talking to was a rather plump 6. She had nice lips and very expressive eyes behind her large specs.

I nearly got run over by a moped running across the road after a chick with a ponytail.

It was a wonderfully reckless day.

Out at night with a friend and had a good chill time. Being social and chatted to some girls.

On the way home through Leicester Square a girl ran up and grabbed my arm. She was trying to yad stop me but she got scared and ran off.

I like girls even more when they're drunk.

Got a tinder date on Wednesday. She seems to want the D ;p

It's almost a year on from my last post. I finally ended my dry spell and am feeling positive.

I've had two SDLs (cold approach DG France and London) and a first-date-lay (France tinder) since May.

I'll post lay reports when I get time