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1) If you paid any attention you would see it is clear he avoids or at least doesn't do much in the way of girls. Speed dating doesn't count and neither does 'talking to girls'.
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No mate if you paid attention you'd know he was a guy with massive anxiety issues and had a terrible psychology towards women. He was very honest and open and Kowalski ripped him apart and he still stuck around. Comparing his first post to where he is at now is HUGE. You're wrong, speed dating and talking to girls definitely does count. What's more is that he holds himself accountable and recognises when he could've done better and done more, which is key to not be coming a weird Serendipity type who just does the same thing day in day out without evolving. Just because he hasn't got laid and isn't going out every night getting shit faced is your measuring stick not his. His measuring stick counts, your's means fuck all.
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2) It is a dating forum though and it is the main reason you would start a journal in the field report section. Yes I dont like weird PUA stuff but dating and sex is a normal important thing.
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No a journal in the field report section is exactly that. It's a man's journal of what he decides is a field report. There is no hard and fast definition that states it must soley contain reports of banging chicks and getting shit faced. So long as it's true it can be whatever it wants. If it's about having a 3 way in the club toilets with two HB9's then great. If it doesn't then....great.
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3). . .uhhh. . . cool buy him a wheelchair on me. You took an analogy (and the jokey end part) and took it literally whilst implying that Broadsword is here to be a fan boy.
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He has a wheelchair, his healthcare is awesome, I'm happy for him. I took an analogy you took the time to write. Jokey or not by your analogous logic someone with muscular dystrophy shoul'dnt be joining a bodybuilding forum. That is still whack and if you feel I'm twisting your words then don't type shit.....shit sticks.
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4) Being 31 and a virgin, and after a year of being on the forum, and still he really hasn't done much. I'm not going to organise a bibliography of his posts but its clear there's a lack of action which is okay as that's easy enough when you're not a retard. But this forum has too much 'cheerleading' and confusing 'anti- pua' with anti-dating.
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Again your wrong. Has has done an awful lot. Again if you paid attention you would see he is literally a changed man in that year if you follow his posts. So what if he hasn't gotten laid, I get the impression he doesn't actually care. Once again his lack of action if purely your perception. Again you are judging what he does or doesn't do by your measuring stick, and what did we say about your measuring stick?
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5 and 6) Yeah everybody, and I mean everybody, went through the phase of going out a lot and even trying out PUA behaviours, lines etc. Whilst we can argue about trying out PUA stuff, everybody needs to do the 'going out loads' phase.
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Everybody? So we're all the same and go on the exact same journey do we? Find me a reliable source that says this is the rule and i'l shit in my hands and clap.
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I remember your coming-back post and it was very clear you did a lot of going out and approaching, and that you find it a big deal. And note I said "In your position" anyway. If Broadsword followed my advice which was essentially "Go and chat up girls" but sometimes setting yourself a little bit of structure when your starting off with something or nervous can help.
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My coming back post was over a year ago and you're right I did, but a lot has changed then. I would even say I'm a different man now, with completley different attitudes and perceptions to the man who wrote that coming back post. I figure Broadsword is the same. Broadsword's happy doing his thing, he's fine as he is and there's certainly room for improvement, just like everyone of us, just like I said to markuk give the guy a break.
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I always find it funny when people on here advocate the whole "Do nothing" approach.
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Find me one example of where he has been advised to do nothing.
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I think I've spoken about this kinda subject with my mates before and I don't think anybody has ever said anything less than "You'd get that shit sorted right away!" not "Oh well if you've said hi to a girl you've tried your best", that's what a girl would say.
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Maybe that would't be bad advice if something was a problem for you. What you're missing is I don't think it's a problem for Broadsword anymore. He's said he's found other passions and endevours that are his priority's now and he's found happiness in them. This has led to him understanding the answers to his problems don't lie in a chicks twat as you would seem to believe, and who knows maybe that is true for you.
If he get's laid and meets a cool girl then good on him, if it takes another year so what. He's found the key to success with women, he does what he wants, takes life by his own pace and evolves where he can.