Day game - Awesome!

[switch]

So once again im sending a weekly report to everyone on here trying to share my progress and also to seek some advice.

It all started this morning when I was up bright and early and ready for a full day of approaching. My nerves have been so bad the last couple of weeks so ive decided to just keep approaching more and more until it feels right. I hit the city at 9am with the intention of completing one of the stylelife challenges (approach 3 women and get a recommendation for a trendy mens clothes store). Now first of all, my nerves were better however something strange happened this week. A couple of weeks ago I explained how I was on a night out and got opened by a hot girl and basically folded like a deck of cards. Bright red, couldnt get my words out, disaster! This morning, in a department store i was on the escalator going down when I looked round and guess who was behind me....same girl! She started talking to me again but this time I thought fuck this, im gonna control this whole conversation....which I did. Now nothing came of any of this but I stayed cool, calm and collected and left a positive impression and walked away with confidence. So much confidence that I then opened 10 sets over the course of the day.

So what have I learnt? When you approach people the outcome is nothing like you think its going to be. I had positive feedback from everyone. Every girl gave me a recommendation for a clothes store. Nobody ignored me, laughed at me or hit me....bonus!

Ive left today with such an air of confidence. Ive striked up ten different conversations and im sure one of them I could have number closed but didnt have the balls but I dont mind because all of that is still to come. My AA is improving with every approach so im out tonight, same drill, appraoch all night. Tomorrow morning, up showered, sweet clothes and approach again all day.

I just have one problem now. There are only one saturday and sunday every week! Thats not enough......maybe I could work part time and sarge 4 days a week

Hopefully in 24 hours from now, my confidence will have improved again and more success may have been had.

Until next time.

Switch

(PS. The girl I thought I could have number closed. Basically she was a shop assistant in a homeware department. Very cute. I approached her and we had a real good conversation. She kept cracking jokes with me and playing with her hair. She even looked disappointed when I left. Im convinced it was on. I left because I lost my bottle. I was going to go back to give it another go but didnt know how to approach it without seeming creepy (ie. same guy coming back on his own four hours later with no clothes bought). So my question.

1. Should I have gone back and given it another go (if so, how should I have approached it)

2. Should I put it down to experience and say I should have closed the first time (forget about going back and learn from my mistakes)

All comments appreciated!

[db x]

Sounds like you're making some fair progress there... I'm wanting to start trying to day game but where I am from isn't so big :/ Meh I look for excuses not to do things but I admire you're effort not to let that effect you.

My advice would be not to bother going back to the same girl... Maybe in a while with a fair amount of approaches under you're belt but end of the day there are plenty more girls that you're gonna get this opportunity from you just gotta learn from the initial mistake and not make it again!

Good luck with tonight for me dancefloor game is about as far as my approaching has took me but I have great success from it so... Still gonna force myself to start trying other ways as it seems you get a much higher flake rate from dancefloor game...

But all in all you're seeming like you're starting to grow a pair :P Maybe try some more direct stuff have you looked at any natural game? Im well into the natural side of things now...

Much Love
Dave xX

[db x]

P.S Whats up with you're forum rank :s

[marked1]

Good stuff mate, at least your getting field experience and getting the experience that girls are usually receptive to your approaches. 10 approaches for the day is good, I too did the same mission from rules of the game except I combined it with a compliment: "hey you look really stylish and can propably tell me where a good place to get clothes from is round here" well word it better than that but along those lines.
Its funny, the compliment totally sandbags them and they try and recompose themseleves and think of the reccomendation. Try it next time
Keep up the good work

[switch]

Thanks for the comments guys. Ive been out again all day today. Just approaching and trying to find more confidence. Had to give four compliments to random women today and that was surprisingly hard! Anyway, gonna hit a couple of bars now and try and overcome my fear of night game. I already cant wait for the week ahead.

Adios amigos!

[7aco]

Hey Switch
I really admire your persistence. I'll keep a close look on your progress and follow your example so please keep posting.

Thanks man

7aco

[nova]

Great stuff switch. 10 approaches in one day is heavyweight!

Originally Posted by switch

I just have one problem now. There are only one saturday and sunday every week! Thats not enough......maybe I could work part time and sarge 4 days a week

Only thing I'd say is that Day Game doesn't have to be strictly day time. When I was working hard at my day game I was using every available evening after work too or even lunch times. Places like indoor shopping centres or supermarkets are full of girls waiting to be chatted up by some guy who has the balls to admit he likes her.

[db x]

Originally Posted by switch

Thanks for the comments guys. Ive been out again all day today. Just approaching and trying to find more confidence. Had to give four compliments to random women today and that was surprisingly hard! Anyway, gonna hit a couple of bars now and try and overcome my fear of night game. I already cant wait for the week ahead.

Adios amigos!

LOL you fear night game over day game? Balls of steel mate.

I have realised that I can't open with words... I pretty much have to k-close on the dance floor then take them outside to talk... I sometimes pull in the line to get in but generally only when they are clearly showing IOI's before I open...

Its not even a case of alcohol cos Ive been going out sober lately... Its more I need one IOI or have already pulled a couple of times before I can overcome my AA of starting convo :/

Meh. Good luck with night game anyway mate... Might have more skill to it because its much more direct but certainly takes less balls imo.

Much Love
Dave xX

[switch]

I love every single comment on here guys. Its amazing how much confidence and encouragement everybody can give each other! I looked at this whole thing before I started and thought what would be the biggest challenge for me? Well I have never chatted a girl up during the day and as a 26 year old male I thought that was quite pathetic. So thats my aim, that no matter where I am whether it be in a supermarket, shopping centre or on a bus I will approach, open and close. My view is when you go drinking to say a club or bar, there is a percentage of women who are looking to meet men. Maybe even have sex. I know this because that is the only way I have ever got laid. Everytime ive had sex, I havnt worked for it, earnt it, havnt really even enjoyed it that much so now, I will change all that and actually become the person I want to be. As I write this I had planned on a quiet evening in with a pot noodle and a wank but after your inspriring comments guess what....im getting dressed, im gonna be a man and im gonna go night game!

Adios amigos

[nova]

Originally Posted by switch

So thats my aim, that no matter where I am whether it be in a supermarket, shopping centre or on a bus I will approach, open and close.

Well put switch. There are opportunities all around us. We don't need to wait til the wkd!