Java night -
08-12-2009, 12:38 AM
Hey guys! hope you alright!
So here we go, my first field report.
Yeah, just came back, and will have lectures tomorrow at 9.00, but anyway, fuck it, can’t really fall asleep now.
Tonight I went to Java with some friends, had a pretty fun night.
Firstly, I started with opening a 2 sets of hb9 and hb10 (found myself cant do ugs anymore,I know its not a good thing :P ) I used the opinion opener, had them discussed for a while, but didn’t go too far. Basically I didn’t feel like they were that interested in me too much, so just cut the crap. “nice meeting you, have to get back to my friends now, talk to you guys later”
And then, I opened a 3 sets directly, to a hb9. After exchanging names,
I went “so wots your story?” she goes “I’m English, from xx (can’t remember :P) and I do Spanish and Russian.” Etc.
“No shit, you know what, my ex girlfriend, was Russian, oh, I can’t even talk to you right now” I back turned.
Made her giggled a bit. And she brought up some boring topic (like they always do)
It actually went quite well, she was generally interested. However, there were two problems
1. no kinos. This worried me a little bit at the moment, as then was touching me, I didn’t really know how to continue, (sounds weird, hope you guys understand what I mean).
2. I generally built some comfort with her friends, but it just some interruptions kept on coming in, like they were taking pictures, dancing, talking to each others. In those situations, I feel like been locked and don’t know how to get involved.
Anyway, It ends up with I asking her number, and she told me she has a boyfriend. Actually she even showed her boyfriend’s photo to me,(hehe not expecting that coming, evendice :P)
After that, opened a ramdom one on the dancing floor. She doesn’t really speak English, Her name, I can’t pronounce, I guess its Polish (Pavel, you hope you were there!!).
The last one, hb8, opened on the dance floor, she was with her drunk friend. And her friend was hitting on me AND my friend, dirty dancing and all stuff, didn’t like drunk girl. But,I kinda feel regrate now,lol… I should take any chance yeah?
Anyway, I got her number at the end, but dun really think I’ve built enough interaction with her,( I know this is REALLY difficult and important tho, I’m just not there still ) so probably gonna be a flake. I’ve text her with the gold “who was the sex guy you were just talking to” (taken from Kowalski)
I think I’m getting more and more familiar with the stuff now, quite good. But definitely need to learn and practice more.
So guys, do discuss, and help me with the two problems I had if you want to.
Peace
Brothers are arms, women are jackets
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