Friday 9th / Saturday 10th May.

*I realise this is quite a long and possibly dull post for some, so if you like mountain biking just read the last sentence instead.

When I first moved to London in October last year I found my new job very time consuming and it left me little time for pursuits outside of work.
Work seems easier now and I feel more focussed on my personal life again (and trying to get laid).

I've also made a big effort to abstain from porno and girlie cam sites (These things are not healthy for me).
That has left me feeling better about myself and more desire for regular girls.

I had a couple of tinder dates in the week. Both were boring as fuck and went no where. The second date was quite cute but she spoke too much, she was American.
Friday I went out in angel, quite late and stayed sober and did one approach. It's not enough but the girls were nice and as we spoke I felt self amused.

Saturday I woke and felt great (no hang-over) and met up with Serendipity, around lunch time. I wanted to try and talk to women outside of bars / nightclubs.
Whilst I was waiting for Serendipity it started raining and I took shelter under a bridge.
There was a woman was a great figure and it looked like she had just left an office. I didn't approach her but I felt a healthy desire for her ass and I felt 100% good about it.
Sometimes in the passed I've felt 'I'm not good enough for her'.

I met Serendipity and we walked along south bank and I noticed a cute blonde with an umbrella and we joked I should run after her.
As we walked along south bank I could see she had stopped to dry her feet (girls...). I couldn't help but admire her perfect small ass from behind and see her VPL .
I bottled out of approaching her but later I saw her walking into a museum so I decided to follow. I forced myself to approach and discovered she was a tourist from Brazil.
I felt a really strong desire for her (much more than women I meet through dating sites). I didn't employe any tactics as such I just did what I felt was right.
We spent much of the afternoon and evening together. Her english wasn't great but she was so much fun and sexy.
As we were in the pub she tried to make me understand she was interested in me kissing her (before i had even tried)
This kinda threw me, it may have been true or just token resistance.
After this I should have kissed her but didn't. We ate together and then she got the tube home, I tried to get her to stay out longer but failed.
On the way home I told a cute Japanese girl she was attractive and she said 'thanks', I didn't follow it up though, even though she came into Tesco and used the self check-out next to ne.


One of my personality trails is to be hard on myself. The logical part of my brain says I should feel happy with my progress.
However I feel disappointed because I didn't get laid.

Sunday
I went mountain biking and learned how to do manuals :[]

Mark

Should've just done it. And yo nice ones on the manuals, when I was okay at them I used to go to a car park and see how many spaces I could get past, it's good practice. Recent;y I've been fantasizing about learning bar spins, ahh I've been away from bmxing too long!

I was there before and during the initial stages of the pickup. I watched both your body langauges and as much knowledge as I have on pick up...it was ON.

I think the only mistake you made was in trying too hard on the instant date. It should have been much shorter...a 20-30 minute max affair. She was already attracted. I think you might have given too much away too soon. Leave the rest of the work for the full first date (day 2). It is so hard to walk away but you had her number and she was attracted. A flake would have been extremely unlikely after that.

That said you picked up a girl the first time you went out daygaming even though it was shit british weather so don't be hard on yourself. It's very encouraging.

Quick update.

Went away for the weekend and attempted to surf was pretty fun. At night got chatting to a pretty girl and felt a connection however didn't follow through and another guy did.

I had a little bitch and cry about it and put some shout outs on here, when I was feeling sorry for myself.

Lesson of the weekend - stop being a bitch & be more decisive with women I like.

You got over this quite quickly and took the lesson. Good man. It stings like fuck. But if you learn from it, then it has some value for you. Sometimes the lesson is just that you can't always win and that's a good thing to be able to accept.

If you can change something to do better in the same situation next time around then change it. But bear in mind that there may have been factors out of your control. You shouldn't always blame yourself.

Saturday 31st May.

Frustrated that I didn't pull last night after such a crazy time.

We went out drinking quite early and I made a few awkward 'approaches' but soon got relaxed. After a few hours in a couple of pubs hit the streets and I started high fiving everyone, was pretty funny.

Later that night we ended up in tiger tiger (meat market). It started to feel like a scene from the smack my bitch up video. We were deliberately being very direct and psychical, something I've struggled with in the past.

I saw a hot blonde walking past and I just grabbed her arm and pulled her into to me and started chatting. HaHa was so much fun - but nothing was sticking so she soon left for her friends.

Later I saw an amazing asian looking girl and I did the same thing and within seconds I had my arms all around her and she was fine with it. In fact she started asking me boring interview type questions. I got bored and tried to kiss her and she freaked out and ran away.

All in all was a crazy night - I've never spoken or hit on that many women.

I'm still seeing this as good progress.

Friday 6th June

Still a bit tipsy, but want to write this up now.

After work went out to some bars with a work colleague. Not really been out drinking in Canary Wharf before but thought I'd give it a go.
Work colleague is even more clueless than me when it comes to seducing women. However he's funny and willing to talk to women.

We arrive at the first bar and everyone is drinking outside, lots of suits, I'd say 300/400 men and 10 hot girls.
I see two blondes and say let's go talk to them, I walk over and say 'hi I think you both looked attractive so wanted to say hi'.
They were Polish and I didn't really fancy either but I asked for a number anyway, pointless really.

I then saw a really hot blonde with her mate and we went over. I said a similar thing but I focussed my attention on the blonde, Emily.
She was from Essex and really lovely. We chatted a little bit and some of her male friends came over.
For a minute I thought: Oh they could be their boyfriends

but I'm past caring at this point so just play it cool and shake their hands.
We chatted for a bit more and I said to Emily:
look I'll cut to the chase, I think you're hot and I'd like your number

Emily:
I have a boyfriend.

Emily's friend:
Look at her, of course she has a boyfriend. (I ignore this).


Emily:
Maybe I'll see, you around

Me
If I see you, I'm going to give you a funny look

Emily
What do you mean

Me
I'm going to look at you and think you're the hot girl I wanted


After this we left and spoke to some other women, with long legs, short skirts - you get the picture.

However Emily was looking back at us. I'm sure I screwed up.

Generally, I find I can talk to any women I dont care hot 'hot' they look, I never feel a woman is 'out my league' it's all bollox.
I still think my challenge is, I give up too easier and don't show enough intent.

The positives are I'm telling women I think they're attractive, which I think is more honest than some weak indirect comment (ie nice coat).

Mark

u stroked her ego.

she bought it

Elaborate? I honestly don't see it.

obis she wasn't gonna fuck u she has a guy. that being said u where fairly str8 up u wanted to fuck her.

that is being direct. She then knows u wanna fuck her and if she thinks ur nice looking ur in.

the difference is some guys go 'ur really pretty'

granted i wouldn't have said "ur the hot girl i wanted' but whatever, horses for courses.

u told her what u were after, if she liked u that creates sexual seed.

thats why i always be clear on my intentions coz that happens. They look back.