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Tues 3rd Nov - Day Game with Dolphin -
04-11-2009, 12:50 PM
Tues 3rd Nov
Arranged to meet my main man Dolphin in the city centre. We had a catch up about this and that then went on a wander through the Arndale. Not too much happening in there, very quiet, but just as we were leaving Dolphin opened a girl. It went well and she complied to stop and chat and started to edge away slowly until they said goodbye. We move on. We start heading down Market Street, I spot 2 girls and was not in the mood to be particularly creative or direct so said the first innocent easy thing, ‘Excuse me girls, do you know any good coffee houses round here. It needs to be a cool an interesting one though because people always give me directions to Starbucks’. I said this is a fun way and they lapped it up. The cute one tells me she likes Starbucks. We talk a little about that with her friend. I get them to recommend me drinks they like. They giggle and tell me. They start to edge away from the scene and I say I might try one of each. The cute one says ‘Next time you can buy me one’. I thought is she trying to get me to close her?!! I should have, she wasn’t amazing, but cute enough! So onwards we go, we head down Deansgate, I take one side of the road, The Dolphin the other! I spot two more girls at the lights. I use the same lazy opener. Not much comes of this as my target doesn’t seem interested, and I say thanks. I head down. Some girl with a really nice ass overtakes me with her headphones in. I suddenly think ‘what if I tell her she has a great ass, what’s your name, I’m Ashley’… I think about it a little too long and her illusionary negative responses activate in my head so I don’t do it. It still intrigues me as to how she might have reacted! Perhaps next time I'll have the balls to try this. Me and Dolphin regroup and head up King Street. Two hotties walk torwards us, Dolphin opens them guessing where they are heading (some restaurant), he is right, they are impressed. He pretends we have just come from there, they ask what we had and Dolphin activates some great improvisation and pulls off some tidy white lieing! The girls looked intrigued, they edged away slowly (like the girls I chatted to early), but not fast enough to be willing to leave. So, wrapping up this round of Day Game: - I need to be mentally prepared to react to girls being forward with me, i.e. inviting me to close them. It’s not always a battle. Attraction can be instant. This was more than likely true as my frame was good, I felt pretty damn cool overall and I have never felt so relaxed doing day time approaches. - If the girls edge away from the scene slowly I think they are hoping to be reeled back by further conversation, don’t give up assuming they want to leave. They are testing to see how you react. It’s probably not advisable to chase them or follow them up the street, but for you to interest them in not leaving. - I felt great from having 2-3 interactions. The buzz we both felt we awesome. It doesn't take much to get into state. 1-2 minutes of conversation in this type of environment and you can be on fire. - I am not quite in the frame of mind yet to be completely direct in day game opening, but I feel I might be able to drop this in the conversation early after opening. I know it was lazy to ask for directions to a place I didn’t want to go, but I made it fun so it worked. A white lie can be ok. It saved me worrying, but maybe it also save me pushing more boundaries. Over and out.     
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04-11-2009, 01:45 PM
Its amazing how having a wing keeps you focused on gaining momentum. I parked my car in castlefield to walk over to Market Street to meet Mr Nova. Just knowing he was in that direction kept me focused on opening every chick I caught eye with and I soon got into frame fast.
On the walk over I went through St Anns Street which was filled with attractive women shopping. I made a mental note to come back here. Was a bit delayed by united traffic so was getting late but that didn’t stop us working the magic. I too need to work up to being more direct with the opening. Im going to try an intermediate step – walking past women, and when they smile at me (and they always do) to say “Hi I had to stop you, you have a really cute smile….” White lies are ok, just spur of the moment chit chat. Big shout out the Super Nova!! This man is powerful in frame!!
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04-11-2009, 04:01 PM
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04-11-2009, 04:21 PM
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 This is Nova's thread about day game, where he documents his experiences so start your own field report otherwise it'll turn into a big mess of jumbled threads! "It is if he puts his balls between the strings, and strums himself to ecstasy!"
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04-11-2009, 09:08 PM
As Tom said in equally as eleborate font, this is a personal thread where you can choose (or not) to follow and learn from my journey. I wrote a field report today but it seems to have been buried under all these enormous texts by stiggy. Shame as I spent a while writing them.
Scroll up the page if you are interested in what I learnt last night with Mr Dolphin (tues 3rd Nov)! 
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05-11-2009, 09:55 AM
I think you're progressing, you started off asking about yogurts and now your so close to going direct next time you're out I think you need to do it even if it's just once, you'll really make some girls day too. At least after you have opened tell her she's cute or something.
Who was that asian girl at the party did you meet her out in the day? The mrs was on about how you had a date with her a few days before. "It is if he puts his balls between the strings, and strums himself to ecstasy!"
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05-11-2009, 10:31 AM
I still wouldn't rule out asking about yoghurts again though! haha. Yeah I agree being direct is something I should now be tackling head on. It is a current barrier to be breached so is a good next target to aim for. This wkd perhaps! As you say I will literally make her day. It's win win.
As for the asian chick you saw at my party. That's the girl I number closed in Aldi. We went on a date on the Thursday. It went well, I got a nice kiss close off her at the end of the night and held her hand between venues etc. She told me immediately after my conversation with her in Aldi she couldn't remember what she was there for and left! She literally lost her mind with it all. She was swept off her feet. She also shit tested me to the max about why I spoke to her and not other girls in there. She seems to assume that I'm a playboy who is used to getting hottys! An interesting reality that I've never experienced. This is the burden of showing balls by doing day game. Girls assume your ballsyness automatically makes you worthy of hottys. Not a bad thing, but she keeps bringing this up with me!
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