Here are the key steps I took to becoming 'The Genius With Women'... A.K.A he greatest PUA in London, if not the world (Simplified down to the very essence)...

1. Work on yourself psychologically using NLP (obviously, this is a huge subject, but for the purpose of this brief outline there is no need to go into it. Just find an NLP author you like - of which there are plenty - and do the psychological/mental work they tell you to do

2. Get out there and approach people and start talking to them - this is the number 1 most important thing you can do to become a top PUA: Talk to House-Wives; People at work; Old ladies; Men in the street; Women in the street; Beautiful women in the street; the Post-man; College students; Groups of girls on a night out; Groups of guys on a night out; Mixed groups of people on a night out; and so on... You will be surprised to find that most people (90%) want to talk with you, and even relish conversation. You might say; "I don't want to talk to the Post-man, or old-ladies..."; but talking to all walks of life indiscriminately is how u become a social God. By Talking to everyone- regardless of who they are- you become an unstoppable social animal that most people respect and like (there will always be haters)... After all, what kind of man only wants to talk to 'beautiful women' and not 'older ladies'? I'll tell you what kind of man- some sort of ingenuine sexual screw-up that no one respects. Everyone respects a friendly fellow, who is not in it for selfish reasons and who is a friendly and valued part of the community...

Unfortunately/Fortunately, there is no way around it. If you want to develop God-like social skills and, thereby be good with women, you have to get out there and talk to everyone as much as possible. The more you engage in this, the more powerful and free you become. It took me about six years - if not more - of solid sarging to reach a level where my social skills are God-like (Without wanting to sound too arrogant). In fact, sarging has the wrong connotations for what I'm talking about. I'm talking about pure socialising- as mentioned above- with all walks of life. If you're unemployed, go out and do it in the day. If you're employed, do it on the way to work and then, gently, while you're at work- and then on the way home- maybe even go for a drink after work?... The point is; always socialise with everyone, as much as possible. The more you try and the more success, the more confident you get- I'm living proof of that (PM me if you want to come sarging in London anytime)... This is by far the most important aspect of Pick-Up Artistry there is. By getting out there, and socialising; over time, you become the person you were always meant to be. Every little conversation and exchange, no matter how small or insignificant it might appear, is a stepping stone to a more confident and charismatic 'You'. By taking this practice into your daily regime, you will naturally gain super-human social skills, that set you apart from the rest. It is this heightened level of social skills that enables you to get along with pretty much everyone- including attractive girls you might fancy...

3. Once you start talking to a woman that takes your fancy, it is time to flirt! Flirting is regular chit-chat, but with a masculine, sexual
intention... It is talking to the woman as a prospective lover, rather than a friend.
Since this is simply a rough guide, I will not detail exactly what gets communicated at this point, because there would be too much to detail for a simple, rough outline like this - just know, it is letting the woman know, in as skilful way as possible, that you are interested in her, in a man-woman context, rather than as a friend or associate.
The better and more skilful your flirting is, the more likely that the woman will be attracted to you and give you her number when you ask for it - and also, respond well when you contact her.
So, if you go out everyday and talk and flirt with everybody, you should be getting a few numbers, e-mail addresses, etc... It's all as simple as I have described... What you want, is high quality interactions that give high quality phone numbers, etc... Like I said, flirting is a whole other topic that you must look into and become proficient with: High-quality flirting=High-quality reliable contacts

4. Once you get the girls phone number, email-address, etc... You will call the girl, meet-up; and if you are lucky, eventually isolate her - probably to your bedroom or some other quiet place. If a girl allows herself to be isolated with you, it generally means that she is open to intercourse. I, however, am not interested in intercourse anymore... I want to find that one special lady to share my life with - but that is proving a little difficult for me, because I don't get along with most women over longer periods of time and also because I have very high selection criteria that excludes most women I meet. As with flirting, there are many skills and techniques to help you get the woman's contact details, then isolate her, then get her into bed; but again, that is beyond the scope of this basic guide.
I am a big proponent of 'Natural Game' whereby one picks up women by just being themselves, with little or no reliance on canned routines and techniques. Of course, this takes years of hard work, (both physically approaching people and also pushing through mental boundaries in a psychological sense) to internalise such a mindset, but do know it is possible, and that I am living proof, and that it's worth it. The most important aspect in all of this is learning to step out of your comfort zone by flirting and interacting with people - as I have detailed in point 2 of this brief outline. On top of approaching people and constant socialising, you can use NLP to help promote the kind of mindset that is conducive to socialising and meeting women.

So if we summarise the above brief outline and attempt to see it as a process, we get something like the following:

1. Use NLP to create right mind-set, beliefs, and confidence;
2. Go out into the world and talk and socialise with as many people as possible;
3. Flirt with some of the people you meet and attempt to get their contact details (flirting is all about making oneself attractive to the woman in a man-to-woman context. Involves both raising your own value via flirting, demonstrations of higher value, etc... and sometimes lowering the woman's value with neg-hits and such.);
4. Once you get someone's contact details, you can go on dates, and eventually isolate them and have intercourse - if you so desire - or just simply be intimate with her in some sort of way.

1. NLP is fake
2. Yes
3. That’s neither flirting nor necessary
3 & 4 Contact details lol

You showed your lack of knowledge and experience.

1. Talk to and touch people


That is all.


Peace,

kowalski

What's with the Hate as usual?!

1. You have shown your own inexperience, since NLP does work. Positive psychology - whatever you want to call it - success with women begins in the mind. In fact, any kind of success begins on the mental plane. The type of guys that are drawn to pick-up will usually be failures with women and deeply depressed and lonely. They will be unable to believe that success with women is a skill that can be learnt, or even possible without money and good-looks. NLP or some other form of positive psychology is essential in bringing about a positive influence on the mental plane that can then be used to produce confidence and good vibes on the social level whilst sarging.

2. You're damn right!

3. If you talk to a girl, with boring, mundane, regular conversation like: what's your name, where do you live, nice weather at the moment, etc...it is unlikely to make the necessary impact for her to become attracted to you, especially given the usual time constraints - so we need to communicate in ways that amplify her interest and attraction, quickly. This will often (if you so choose) include touching and also direct or covert sexual intent - which are all forms of flirting. But like I said on many occasions throughout the above post; I was only giving a rough outline of how I got good with women, without going into the numerous techniques in any detail...

4. The goal, if you are a "PUA" is to isolate the girl at some point and - God-willing - fuck her. You will find that you usually need her contact details to do this, but I have done it, on numerous occasions whilst getting the contact details post-coitus.

It’s cool that you read all that in PUA guides and repeated it here for us but it’s not real.

1. It failed to show effect in double blind testing. So, don’t be silly.
3. You can’t amplify attraction. You can notice attraction and work with it, this is the real game.. Normal getting to know you stuff like name and occupation are important to feeling like you know someone. If there’s attraction and they they know you then there’s only logistic left to deal with. Verbal flirting is fun but not necessary and what you described is neither fun nor flirting. The only time I have to slow down is when a girl says “but I don’t know you” and literally saying “I’m Lee, 42, from Manchester. And I am a philosopher with a cat called Brian.” And boom! All that “boring stuff” turns out to be essential and then she is immediately comfortable to do whatever it was that gave her pause to think “but I don’t know this guy”.
4. Contact details are an afterthought / last resort for anyone who understands this shit. We only even consider getting them when we reach the end of the interaction and then often will decide not to. You never mentioned physical contact only contact details. Contact her right now with your hands and lips, dumbass. Only an amateur would not touch the girl in any way then go for contact details. I kiss before getting contact details 100% of the time.


Peace,

kowalski

Double blind studies have shown that people who use the word "coitus" don't get laid much

Thanks for yet more unprovoked hate - what a lovely bunch of W**kers...

With regard to Kowalski's last message, where he tries to refute my genius, here is my response:

1. Ok then, if it makes you feel better, some form of psychological self help is needed, be it NLP or something else. The prospective PUA needs to start thinking positively, and drop negative thoughts and emotions like depression, frustration and nervousness - he needs to internalise and truly believe that he is or at least, can be, desirable to women. Before I got into PUA, I was extremely negative, depressed and nervous. I could not believe that any woman could ever fancy me because I thought I was so hideous (I'm actually rather good-looking, especially since I radiate positive vibes whilst all around me is negative). I could not conceive that I could ever walk up to a stranger in the street and start a worthwhile conversation, etc... There are many men in much worse situations than I was... And so, some form of psychological self-help is extremely beneficial - if not, absolutely necessary for budding PUAs. But ultimately, getting out there and socialising as much as possible, with all walks of life, is the ultimate teacher. NLP, self-help literature and courses, and psychological literature and courses, all work together as a great supplement for newbies while they are out there learning the ropes...

2. We both agree - newbies, get out there and socialise all the time (see my original post). Talk to everyone, all the time, don't be scared! Come sarge with me, PM me if you want to meet up in London. I will teach you everything...

3. Flirting is a form of communication that conveys man-to-woman interest, be it with serious intention or otherwise- in whatever form. You seem to be mad crazy on the power of touch as your special move or something???! - maybe you have really soft hands? Joking aside, touch (Kino) is a non-verbal form of flirting that does have a big impact - but it is not the only form of flirting! Literally, any communication (verbal or non-verbal) where you are communicating to the women that you are a man (with non-serious intent, or otherwise) - not another one of her girl-friends - is flirting.

4. For guys who can barely even talk to a girl, getting the contact details is something concrete to aim for in the beginning and can reap good rewards if the right foundation is laid. We can't all be an instant sexual Adonis - like some people here claim to be - who merely have to poke the bitches in their f**king ribs a few times and are then getting their cock sucked in the barn five mins later... Kowalski, The way you talk; you might be a natural where success with women came easy to you - due to looks or money. You don't understand that some people have to fight a really difficult battle to achieve success - these are the people I want to reach, because I can do it for them, because I did it for myself.

[quote=DarrenDarren;129354 Before I got into PUA, I was extremely negative, depressed and nervous. I could not believe that any woman could ever fancy me because I thought I was so hideous [/QUOTE]

There it is, as I said before your bravado is covering up your insecurities, thats fine if it helps you over come them, but you are coming across as extremely arrogant and preaching basic text book stuff, like a born again christian who has just found God and wants everyone to know. Non so pure as those that have been purified as they say.

I understand you want to help others, but calm the fuck down your not helping yourself.

You got successfully trolled by kowalski so it's hard to take you seriously. Only skim read it but didn't look like you mentioned being 'unreactive' when talking to chicks, having a strong frame that's not affected when being given shit. Like you were in this thread.

Still, your post had some value in it, unlike any of kowalski's so nice one, post more 'genius' stuff. Was pretty sure you were firstperson before, now maybe not?

I'm waiting for Brian the cat to create an account and share his opinions here

lol


Peace,

kowalski