Do you start to drool like a little school boy, get tongue-tied, break into a sweat or start to get the chills when the idea of approaching a gorgeous, high quality woman crosses your mind? There are typically 5 reasons why that most likely happens. I am going to show you what they are so that you can see how ridiculous the basis for your self-sabotaging mannerisms are. Your brain will then hopefully, associate massive pain to holding on to the specific emotional responses or beliefs you may have that are killing your chances with women. As a result, it should discard them.


Here are the 5 main causes for your self-destructive and self-sabotaging mannerisms around women.


1. Evolutionary


Thousands of years ago when we used to live in little tribes, we had to obey and "seek the acceptance and approval" of the "tribal leader". If we disobeyed him, we would be ousted from the tribe and thrown out into the surrounding wilderness, where the chances of survival were minimal. This was due to, either the scarcity of resources, the harsh climatic conditions or by savagery by one of the many vicious predators lurking there.


Therefore your need to "seek the acceptance and approval" of others today, including women comes from your evolutionarily hard-wired "need" to obey a primitive tribal leader.


Isn't this ridiculous in 2013? See, just by showing your brain that a specific belief or negative emotional response to something is based on fiction, not on fact, your brain will associate more pain to "holding on to it" than pleasure. Eventually it will discard that believe or neuro-association for good.


2. Developmental


During the early formative years of development, most of our disciplinarian figures were women. That's right! Our babysitters, grade school teachers and of course our mothers were the ones that instituted a system of "punishment and reward" for us, which forced us to seek their acceptance and approval and fear pissing them off. Furthermore, our mothers were the ones that gave us "life" in the form of breast milk and also made us feel loved, wanted, appreciated, secure, nurtured.


From this, we have carried on into adulthood both a wonderful appreciation for women but also a heavy dependency on them for self-validation, hence a need to seek their approval.


See how that happened? Good! Awareness is the first step to recovery.


As a result, your brain should now associate massive pain to holding on to your old habits, because it will see that there is no "value" in doing so any more. Consequently, it should eventually discard them.


3. Psychological


We have a tendency to generalize things, rather than to dissect each situation we experience and formulate a meaning to it, on a case by case basis. For instance, let's say you asked a girl out to the prom when you were 16 and she rejected your proposal. Instead of treating that as "One girl saying no", you tend to formulate the general belief that "I am no good with women" or something like that. The reason for this is because forming such generalizations requires much less work for your mind, than to decipher and define each of your experiences. Once you realize that you are where you are with women, due to, in essence a stupid laziness on the part of your brain, you can start to chuckle then roll on the floor while laughing hysterically and then finally get up and start to put in a bit of effort to breakdown and add meaning to each of your experiences.


In other words, look at the failed prom date proposal as an individual incident and not in any way indicative of an overall, ill fate with women.


4. Mass Media


How often do you see billboards or commercials with men that are very attractive, super rich, young looking, business class, professional looking, well dressed, driving fast sports cars with modelesque, gorgeous bona fide 10s? That's right! All the time.


Why is this so? Quite simply, to create a falsified neuro-association in your sub-conscious mind that you have to be hunky or handsome, rich, young, have lots of money or whatever to attain a hot, high quality woman. This brainwashing is intentional and its intent is to get you to want to attain those "material" things. Ultimately, this makes the retailers of your university education, suit, condo, car, expensive dinners for a woman, etc loads of money off of you. Realize that you don't need material or financial status to attract beautiful, high quality women. All you need is social and genetic status which you can convey using your attitude, body language and certain mannerisms.


See how you have been fooled and tricked? It's okay, better late than never to be awoken from your slumber, right? Awesome. Okay, now moving on to the last reason why you may "suck" with women.......


5. Social


Face it, most of your friends are a bunch of wankers or average frustrated chumps. You have heard their stories of rejection and failure with women, you have heard them whine about how evil women are, simply because they wouldn't give your loser friends the time of day, you have heard them say how "that woman over there" is way out of your league when you are all out at a social venue, you have heard them suggest how you all should just go to a strip club and get a lap dance, as it is much easier to get action that way, even though it is pay for play, you have heard them state how you should go to the dive bar down the street called the Cock n' Bull, because the women in there are so drunk, hideous and desperate that at least you will have a chance at getting some. What are you thinking dude? Drop these losers like 3rd period French!


Your association with such chumps has totally affected your standards and willingness to grow and develop your game. It has brought you down, kept you there and ultimately made you think, feel and act small, little, like a chump. Hasn't it? It will continue to negatively affect your dating and sex life, until and unless you do something about it. Got it? Good! Now dump these losers NOW. You need to associate with winners, successful lady's men, ambitious, Alpha, movers and shakers. If you don't know any then start making connections or just go out alone. That is how all of us got to mastery level within, not just our dating and sex lives but every facet of our lives.


Now can you see why you are at where you are, with respect to your dating and sex life, unnecessarily? If you want to change this, DO SOMETHING NOW chief. First, hopefully by realizing why you think, feel and act the way you do, you can make the decision to change your beliefs and attitude. This should be a bit easier, now that I have told you, the "bullshit basis" for much of your self-destructive thoughts, emotional responses and actions with respect to your dating and sex life. Lastly, If you want help, reach out to us as we can change you in days and weeks, not years if at all.


Now get out there and push the maax!


Omar aka "McMaax"

Im gonna give u some advice here mate "FREE OF CHARGE" this isn't a forum where u will get away with creating a following of believers, ur gonna get pushed out if u carry on.

stop layering PUA nonsense and just act like a normal person, in normal convo.

nobody actually cares about what u are posting coz its like being offered a free bracelet from a gypsie...

u have false intentions

First of all. I am not your mate bitch.
Secondly, You don't give me advice, do you understand me. I give you advice.
If you don't like what I have to say, because you wish you had the mult-faceted life experience and personality that I do or wish you were considered a subject matter expert as I am( I have written 100s of articles to major media outlets FYI with great praise) then that is not my issue. Stop hating punk! If you don't want me on here, then ban me or do something. I could care less, honestly. I have massive traffic and followership globally. You are a complete waste of "sperm" you twat for automatically suggesting that simply because I am posting an article on here, that I am here to mass market something. I write articles amongst other intellectual pursuits and choose to do so rather than engage people on a 1 by 1 basis or conversation until I feel that someone's post as really challenged by mind. so far, not! Sorry to say that!


I am not here to be your buddy or mate, got me Matey? I am here to offer advice and if you don't like it, then move on. Once again, if you don't like the fact that I am posting articles, then complain or ban me. I am indifferent. Once again, let me teach you some social skills. Never again call a guy Mate, understand, unless he feels you have earned that right. In Canada we do things a bit different and we have 0 tolerance in the N. American continent for your UK snotty, psuedo intellectualism or neo elitism which is actually a dying trait. Most Brits I know are amazing people. Why are you so shit faced and sour pussed darling? Embark on a journey of self mastery/actualization it will do you well! Lastly, what I offer is not Nonsense, but proven sociologically and psychologically. Once again, you are giving the UK and this PUA forum a bad name, by your immature, ignorant judgement calls, slander and unsubstantiated demonization or bastardization of myself by umbrella coating my content as the same as everyone else's. NOt very smart is it. You never should assume or make characterizations unless your neo-corex has been exercised to decipher each situation individually. There is my 8th FREE lesson in life to you. You come across as a self righteous, punk ass turd who needs to be schooled .I hope you are not giving advice to others for your demonstration of emasculinity and immaturity hasn't been more clearly demonstrated by any one else I know.

No probs matey

HAHAH. look dick-head, PUA is full of gob-shites, i don't believe in any of this shit. Mystery, Style its all crap IOI's, comfort zones, micro-calibration. How much of a dweeb do u have to be that u came up with a methodology with the sole intention of gettin women. who cares? women are not that interesting.

Furthermore, the fact what u say basically tells people u should treat women with respect and like friends and they will "get down n shit' makes u probably one of the most clueless guys ive ever heard.

at least most guys who come here say "i treat women with respect and get walked on or in the freind zone' HELP

ur touting that shit as a winning formula.

women like men, men who are in control. men who don't bow to their psudo divinity, men who can protect them.. Thats the end of it, there are no magic bullets, special methods.

The reason i have always got everythin i ever want, women and in life is coz i just take it.

me like a load of other guys on here are not weedy clueless guys who are gonna buy ur books. We are just normal guys who happen to have read the game and get laid.

The fact u are taking this shit so personally (and seriously) is laughable. ur are an official joke

Mate Mate Mate Mate Mate Mate Mate Mate Mate Mate Mate Mate Mate Mate Mate Mate Mate Mate Mate Mate Mate Mate Mate Mate Mate MAAAAAAAATTTTTTEEEE

..... mate

You fuckin cock gagging British Faggot, my outfit and I don't teach "methods and routines" like most Faggot, preposterous PUA outfits do. I teach men through my channel of trainers a holistic approach to, in essence "life/self masterY" from which seduction, dating mastery experiences a huge improvement and success when you master these things.

We teach men how to be their "best selves" and viscerally conquer issues relating to life and love the long term. What methods are you talking about? I do have methods to what I teach but its power in not in the method as the solution but rather the method serves as a paradigm from which men reference to achieve "natural and real mastery".


I am a 2 times entrepreneur and know about a thing or two about the importance of needing some sort of structure or "game plan/blueprint" to achieve and re-achieve success. Someone who is privy to entrepreneurship and success will tell you that-From Donald Trump, Chris Gardener, Oprah Winfrey, Georges St Pierre, etc.

We never profess to shove methods, routines and all of that shit down guys throat. They don't work. This is why if you go on PUAHATE.com or ripoff report. all those other artificial PUA outfits have had bad write ups and complaints. My outfit, NOT ONE. Check yourself. We care for the natural and long term success, happiness and fulfilment of our clients in both matters of love, life and of the "Self"


You automatically pigeon holed me with the others without even knowing what I and my outfit teaches. That article I wrote was something self-growth.com used and ezine articles, two major and in fact the largest article distribution sites on the planet . They are very little to do with picking uyp women but more about mastering yourself by understanding where most of the insecurity around women, people come from. Are you as dumb as your write?

You are a Joke and in fact I simply wanted to defend myself and because of that I am now labelled as "sensitive". You contacted me first manBoy! You are a shit instigator like a douchy fratboy who rather than having a mature, cordial discussion has to display a false level of machismo or abrasiveness. In fact I am showing this post to a few women that I know and they think you are a totaly fuckin loser! What an idiot you are.

Listen PHIL you could have approached me in a more civil, alpha, classy, mature way rather than tout at me, condescend to me and be so abrasive. That is BETAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA AAAAAAAA. Lesson 9, never display such a low life, fratboy type of disposition when you confront another male, even when you disagree with him. Always be "COOL and CALM and CORDIAL"


From this point, you are waste of my precious time.......Do what you have to do, write your child like, uneducated, non eloquent, rubbish responses and defend yourself/offend me. I actually just farted and am relaxing after a nice MMA meal. Ahhhhhhhhh!

You are amusement for me hence the gas!

PRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR Oh did you hear that one.........


Ahhhhhhhhh.............


Now shoooooo!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Hey have you ever heard of the Jackal? I recon you and him would get on very well he was a good mate of mine 2.

actually, i watched all ur vids on utube last night. There wer a few of em. u wer talkin about some cool leather couch.

the judgement i made was based on what i heard. Nothin profound about it mate.

and writing beta with lots of a's is beta.

now bore off with ur essays.

also, why are u that bothered by me??? enough to show some girls what i wrote. ... who is a loser again???