As if girls flaking on me for you wasn't hot enough!

haha, ur not clinging on to that thought are you.

also i dont know what that means

It means Scott needs to get his finger out if he wants to improve his batting average. Do you lads seriously have conversations about that stuff? Funny.

Jesus Christ just finished reading all of this

Sounds like there is some confusion...

My opinion is it depends what your objective is, Paying to take a girl out is nice and will earn you extra brownie points ...but this can go either way

1st way - Oh he is nice lad..payed for everything..values me.. Im attractive to him..if he trys it on ill give him some

2nd way - He is really nice lad, values me bla bla, Im going to show some value by not putting out...yet



PS if your trying just to get a 1st night lay ..use a dating site ( or go out to a bar/club! ) that is far easy and less time demanding then going through the official " Im pretending to be awesome and pay for everything lots of dates guy "


And to contradict my self.. I enjoy taking a girl to Liverpool Art Musuem, coffee then simply say..Movie and drinks at my place ?

I have done this countless times. Enjoyed the company at the museum and everytime enjoyed movies and drinks at mine... with a 1st time lay

Years ago.. I took girls to expensive meals..came across way too desperate..they could smell it from a mile off

All any girl ever needed from a first date was this. Done deal.

Seriously... thats the road you are taking..

... on a pick up forum??? Really?

Not really. I considered/counted how many I was sleeping with up until about 3 months ago, then I realised it meant nothing to me. I was sleeping with girls for the sake of it. Now I am at a place where I am more interested in building on the sex with several girls at the same time, as I find the sex just gets better and more interesting with each girl as you find your feet with one another. I now prefer the scenario of a rotation of fewer girls over a high turnover of girls/one night stands.

If you're anything like me you'll go in and out of phases with that. Rotations get boring after a while too.

Aye, it's all new to me having a rotation of 3/4 girls. I'm kind of relaxing into it at the mo and loving it.

I expect I will get bored of the said girls, and want to up the quality, or will naturally meet more interesting girls etc. I am not seeking a relationship from any of them, but I still think I'd want to build on the experiences with each girl, especially if I like their company and the sex.

cool thread ,

totally agree with loads of stuff there , especially texting next day, meeting in a familiar place (always corbearies in MCR for me) and calling beforehand.

nice one.