really? please dont take the following as bragging rights (altho it kinda is)

i have fucked some pretty hot girls,

i suppose i may be the chode who wines and dines them...

altho i may be the type of guy who is the reason u get flaked on?

It’s a well known fact, girls prefer wine and food to sex.

depends on who the sex is with. and it depends on the bottle of wine.

Exactly. It has no bearing on what money he spends on her. This is the kind of crap society tells us we need to do on a first date. Chivalry is nonsense.

the above means nothing. unless you feel you can somehow get any girl you want into bed, whenever you wish.

Also, i never claimed you have to take girls out to bed them, i just prefer to... and also, girls like guys who look after them.

You will all probably lose your minds at the following comment, but i have met so many girls (both intimately and in passing from all over the uk) who have said the same thing

"scouse lads r not like lads from other cities, who are quite happy to let you pay for all their drinks, or just go halves... its not that i mind going halves, its just nice to feel special and looked after"

now most scouse lads i know are like

"put ur money away u idiot, ill get these"

Whether u think thats chode behaviour, most guys i know have slept with minimum 50 girls.

again, the main point of the thread is right, u cant just keep spending money on women, that being said.. women like the feeling of being looked after.

here is the rule i would follow.

dont spend money to get a girl into bed, do it coz u think she is worth keeping.

if she isnt worth keeping, dont, and just fuck her and be done.

but it is important to remember the rules have to change for the ones u like, coz u clearly don't respect the girls ur dating currently enough to want to take them out. and if u treat a girl who is worth keeping like the rest of the riff raff, she will find someone who values her...

and u will wind up dick in hand wanking over her

If it’s a first date, I wouldn’t have much of an idea if she’s worth keeping, I’d need to get to know her. Besides, I’m not looking for a girl to keep.



Not sure what you’re on about here with the lack of respect, wanking, or the 'riff raff'...

I take different girls out 2/3 times a week, I take them for a tea, maybe sometimes on a second date I'll cook for them, etc etc. then with some of them I have sex. I don’t feel the need to arrange exciting dates or pick up the tab in front of them to make them feel ‘looked after’ or ‘valued’. They know I value them because I make that clear to them. Throwing money at them is a thin token veneer of value, it’s easy if you’ve got it.

Do they sell them in Sports Direct?

Notice he said get not 'pay for', typical scouse.

Too hot to handle

Not really, until i got on this forum i genuinely thought that most lads had shagged more than 20 girls at least.

i know a few virgin lads who are 30 plus. but i can honestly list

scott : bout 20 ish
ken : 30 odd
alex 200 plus
julian (mostly fattys) 100 +
jay: 70 +
me : 50+

all my closest mates have always got laid. altho let me assure u the top 2 defo dont buy girls drinks or anythin.

there isnt a set rule.. do what u want. and dont pay for stuff to get girls into bed, it dont work. but taking a girl out is fine. it doesnt make u a 'CHODE'