Jesus Christ just finished reading all of this

Sounds like there is some confusion...

My opinion is it depends what your objective is, Paying to take a girl out is nice and will earn you extra brownie points ...but this can go either way

1st way - Oh he is nice lad..payed for everything..values me.. Im attractive to him..if he trys it on ill give him some

2nd way - He is really nice lad, values me bla bla, Im going to show some value by not putting out...yet



PS if your trying just to get a 1st night lay ..use a dating site ( or go out to a bar/club! ) that is far easy and less time demanding then going through the official " Im pretending to be awesome and pay for everything lots of dates guy "


And to contradict my self.. I enjoy taking a girl to Liverpool Art Musuem, coffee then simply say..Movie and drinks at my place ?

I have done this countless times. Enjoyed the company at the museum and everytime enjoyed movies and drinks at mine... with a 1st time lay

Years ago.. I took girls to expensive meals..came across way too desperate..they could smell it from a mile off