You're right Adam, it is fascinating.

Duncan is addressing the issue as an adult, a father and husband.

We, however, are approaching the issue as a bunch of hungry young warm blooded males!!

Can we bridge this gap, does anyone on here really care...?

Prove me wrong guys.

I'd love to know how an older guy with game thinks about all this.....

Sadly Duncan doesn't have any game he's trying to get back his ex wife who he threatened and got imprisoned because of these threats. His plan to get back with her is by contacting her lawyer because a bus driver told him to.

If some guy came on here and said he wanted to get back with his ex wife who won't talk to him, we'd all tell him to leave it and move on.

My Dad's got more game if I need an older mans perspective i'll ask him.

There are many things I want to say but I don't think the intro section is the right place for it, any main points can be copied and pasted back into a post.

Well said tom i no wat you meen mate, and i think your right about the x wife,

What the fuck! That will teach me to log off for a week! Cannot believe this has strectched to 5 pages on an Intro site.

If people want to continue this then move to an appropriate area?

I am not going to keep posting on this thread - suffice to say I do not agree with your methods or more importantly your motives Duncan. If you have to go through solicitors to contact your family then possibly posting this kind of thing on an open forum could have an opposing effect on getting your family back?

As Tom has alrady stated - our usual advice would be move on from your one-itis and get out there Sarging.

Anyways - that's my position.

Apologies once again for such a long absence, but this time I have a real excuse: I’ve been trying to fend off an attack from the Singapore Government! I know it’s sounds unbelievable, but I can think of no other explanation that fits the facts. Here’s a link for those who are interested:

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Sorry for the distraction, but what with talking to my ISP, broadband company, mail service, the terrorist police, our High Commission in Singapore, The Economist office and their Far East editor in London ... it has all been rather exhausting.

I will now bow to pressure, and start up a new thread somewhere else, but first I will finish replying to everyone here:

Mr. Dolphin: You suggest I should start a new thread in ‘Consciousness’, but that sounds rather esoteric to me. I think I’ll just put it under ‘General Chat’. You are quite right, as you said privately, that religion has to be accounted for, when any moral issue is discussed. I hope this does not offend you, but, as an atheist evangelist, I have started attending a local Church of England church, and am attempting to convert them all to worshipping men instead! None has been entirely persuaded yet, but they have warmly invited me back, and I actively enjoy the experience.


Mr. Adam: I’d better do as I am told and go elsewhere. I am delighted that you find our discussion fascinating, and hope you will follow us to the new location.


Mr. Dolphin: I am honoured you call me adult. I haven’t been one for most of my life -- quite a playboy in fact, in my own way -- but I believe I am just about getting there now. As you imply, keeping your sexual lust under control as an adult truly is a great challenge. It can never disappear -- and it would be a disaster if it did, since it is the basis of flirting -- but rarely if ever must it manifest itself in an overt act. A perpetual conundrum, to be played out anew every day.


Mr. Tom: I am not entirely sure what you mean by ‘game’. If you mean I am not having sexual intercourse with anyone, then it is true; but I am meeting two young ladies, on and off, and flirting to a very modest degree with strange girls I encounter every day. That is quite sufficient for me, at the moment -- it is already making me feel quite young again. As I say above, I will start a new thread elsewhere.


Mr. JJ Smooth: I know it seems crazy of me to persist with my ex-wife. Most people give me the same advice as you do: move on, get a life, plenty more fish in the sea, stop being so boring ... but that would be admitting failure, and that sets a very bad example for my children. I have therefore decided to soldier on for the foreseeable future.


Mr. Shark: I am moving on right after this. As per above, please forgive me for ignoring your advice, but I am going to remain faithful to my ex-wife awhile longer. I like your sign-off line, by the way -- though the last bit’s a little irresponsible for a married man.

Mr. Shark, it really isn’t very good manners to swear in a public forum, so please would you tone down your language? I know people have got used to it here, but that does not make it right.
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Right, I will now set up a new thread. I have decided to post it in the ‘PUA General Chat’ Forum, and I will call it:

Men -- start talking like men, again.

Duncan - you're right swearing isn't necessary; I rarely swear in my posts...I guess this highlights the reaction to your original post. On another point:

I thought you said above you were not actively seeking ladies because you are intent on getting your ex-wife back? Yet your latest post condridicts your previous statement...

Not sure this is how I would go about getting someone I cared about back.

Right, I have now posted the new thread under General Chat: “Men -- start talking like men, again”. I invite anyone who is interested to go there.

Mr. Shark: thank you for agreeing about language. You think I am contradicting myself about my behaviour with young ladies, and worry my ex-wife will react negatively to my attitude. Well, as I say, I agree I am in a danger zone -- I’ve just told one of the girls that I find her very sexually attractive -- but I’ve decided that as long as I make no attempt to arouse her physically, then she’s safe with me and my ex-wife would approve. You must remember that for 26 years she allowed me to go much, much further!
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Duncan Butlin now signing off -- closing down operations here, to start a new life under General Chat.

Admin - can we get this locked now then?

Dear Everyone,

I am afraid I have now been detained under the Mental Health Act, and have very limited access to the Internet, so my posts will be very patchy. I will do my best to keep up to date, nevertheless, and may be allowed back here later today. Anyone who wants to see the details of what is happening to me, please click on the following link:

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I have no idea what to make of this.

Chill out and get well man.