Hello,

all of U professors & students of PUA, from a small but most beautiful south-west European country of - Croatia!!!

I'm quite new to The Game, and especially to the community of PUA. I'm still reading "The Game" book, of one and only Mr. Style.

I'm quite good looking, middle height, 22 year old fella. I started to read and learn about the PUA because I had no luck with girls. I always turn to be a 'Friend' kind of a guy, never getting any closer to the girls hart than sitting next to her on the bus.

I'm not shy when it comes to girls, maybe a little when it comes to KINO with a girl but I started working on that - even before discovering PUA community.

I think my problem would be not playing good HOT&COLD game with gals. Lets take an example few days ago. I was sitting to a neighbor of mine on the bus on the way home. I'm pretty interested in her but I don't have the technique to get her interested in me. OK, so we are traveling for a about half an hour, talking about our studying, about different things, making jokes laughing and stuff - so we are kind of friends - acquaintances. But i want more - I'm not in love or something like that, just want to see her bedroom under the moonlight - if U get me right =)

We travel like this maybe 2 or 3 times a week & always run conversation like mentioned but nothing more. I need a advice, technique or several of them to get more attractive to her and for her to see me as a sex-symbol not just talk buddy.

What can I do to get her more intrigued in me. I'm sorry that this isn't a typical PU problem, but I think this can be solved in PUA manner.

Sorry about the length, this is about it, I'll write some more info under this post so it could be maybe easier for you to see a solution.

Thanks for any advice or help - in advance!

*MORE INFO*

The girl mentioned in the post above lives in my neighborhood - takes me 7min to get to hers house walking.

She is studying politics, and I'm on technical college. She's two years younger than me & shorter about one-two inches.

We listen to a same kind of music - basically rock.

She is very communicative, and can talk a lot that's not a problem, I've learned how to listen girls talk.

She was in a 2 year relationship until the May of 2009 - so that's about six months ago, she doesn't spike about her ex - in any context (I think that's OK?!).

As I managed to find out she's meeting with some dude (I don't know him), but that's nothing serious - just coffees once a week (I find that a potential problem?!).

I'm trying not to talk to her on the IM or Facebook, a don't like that kind of communication with a girl I want to bang (sorry)! If I'm wrong correct me, please.

That's about it, sorry for long post, but I don't want some dumb dude take her.

OK, I'm awaiting any advice so please don't hesitate to help, I'll be one of You guys sooner or later but neighbor cant wait! =)

Best regards!

*MORE INFO*

Pozdrav

Am from Croatia too, actually this is my first on forum even i joined some 1 month ago, didnt have actually have time to write something but since i see Croatia, i say ... what a hell

I was in caffe-bar with friend go to drink beer and find Playboy, anyway, there was article about seduction and pick-ups on 4-5 pages and there i get idea to register here

About your problem, well, i need to discurage you.

Dont know whats are your attentions with this girl,
you wanna one night party or serious realtion but in both cases u have quite big problem.

Since u live close to each other, proly u have same friends and maybe your parents know each other.

So from start you have problem that everyone is messing in your relation and everyone know all.
More ppl involved ==> More preasure

Allso most likely she looking u as brother, someone for nice chat, shoulder to cry.

if u try and she reject you, thats because she feel in that moment "in corner" and betrayed and most likely she will stop to communicate with you.

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After i read again your post, am verry sure that there is verry little chance anything will happend between you.

You are not first pearson in this situation and u wont be last.
But you know best, show us we are wrong, if you decide to approach, do it on way that you dont give a shit will she reject you or not.

Hard, but possible shot.

Croatia? Blimey, this place has become more popular than we thought! Whereabouts are you? I was going to go to Pag for the Exodus festival in the summer, but finances let me down sadly. It was a shame, I'd like to have seen Croatia.

Welcome aboard anyway!

@Grog

Hvala

Ok, so some more info, we have no common friends that we hang with, only same neighbours. Are parents are fare from knowing each other & there is no pressure in the way we talk and stuff.

So I think it would be only a small set of parameters to get me going in the right way.

What I want with this girl is one night stand, or eventually FB - but about that later!

Thx for advice "do it on way that you dont give a shit ", I was considering something like that....

Welcome,

Flash I think you need to go out an approach other women, you don't want to get too obsessed with one woman. As you are new to this it might get weird if you just sleep with her. If you go out and meet other women and try to improve this side of your life you'll end up figuring a lot of things out about yourself.

Welcome mate

thx mates =)

Christ, we're getting taken over!

Welcome!!

And by who? Slavs! Double pwnage!

Hey Marko!
You couldn't find better. This forum is *awesome*

peace
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