I'm almost 29 now and haven't been in any relationships ever, I've never even been with a woman. I am considered a nice guy and alot of times they want to be "best friends" but nothing more. I've recently learned to not take this shit and walk away, if I'm not good enough to date then I'm not going to hang around to listen to their stories about who they screw (they all try telling me!). Infact I'm at the end of my rope and don't believe it's possible for me to ever get laid, I'm not terribly bad looking but it just seems like women aren't into me at all. Although I must say the ones I've met go after the bad boys definitely, then complain about them to me! I've lost complete faith in the idea of "relationships" with women because it's clear they aren't into that REALLY. They want someone that's a jerk and whatever else I can't figure out. I'll read these forums because maybe I'll feel better and not so alone in my misery. Frankly I'm not sure what to make of myself. Thanks!

Here are some of my interests Acupressure, Anime, Aromatherapy, Chi Kung, China, Computer Science, Existentialism, Fun, Hyperdimensional Physics, Hypnosis, Japan, Jeet Kune Do, Jiddu Krishnamurti, Life, Lost History, Museums, Mysticism, Neuro Linguistic Programming, Origami, Philosophy, Poetry, Psychoanalysis, Quantum Physics, Romance, Science Fiction, Sexuality, Super Eurobeat, UFOs, Wing Chun, Zen

PS The funny part is that I'm in Los Angeles, California and you'd think even I would be able to get laid here, guess I'm to much of a loser eh?

I've been reading abit, this technique Shock and Awe 2 by Ciaran sound rather up my alley, I'm always rejected so why not get it over with quickly instead of waiting? Sounds interesting to me. I guess I'd need to determine where I'd like to try it, hum. The question is does a guy like me have the balls to try it? I'd say yes since I got nothing to loose. I think a club would be most logical. I'll think about it :\

Hey man welcome to the forum!

You should find some people to go out with in LA and meet women with.
The thing with women is they want someone who is dominant and assertive but this doesn't have to mean you need to be a dick. The good thing is it's not down to genetics and how you look, you can make some changes but don't expect a quick fix. Many expect to find the perfect opener or it all to click straight away. You will have ups and downs but you have made the first step by seeking to do something about it.

- Exactly. Welcome to the forum bro. Rest assured you'll receive lots of help and support here.

Nick

Thanks guys, I'm going to think alot about this, Shock & Awe 2 may be something I can understand and apply.

Welcome to the forums mate.

The good news is not only have you come to the right place, but it sounds like you're starting from a good position. The lads on here are probably sick to the back teeth of me mentioning Fight Club but the mantra of "losing all hope is freedom" rings true in everything. By the sounds of it you've lost all hope so you're free to do anything, safe in the knowledge that you have nothing to lose. I think you're going to be fine.

I'd recommend reading as much as is humanly possible. Read "The Rules of The Game" and "The Game" by Neil Strauss, and I'd thoroughly recommend Juggler Method. They're available on torrent sites (I use isohunt.com, perhaps unwisely), in fact try searching under "PUA Books" - there should be a massive list of books (it's like 2GB of PDFs) most of which are crap but there's some good stuff in there.

Other than that, read everything on here and when you've got your confidence up a bit, go out and practice! It'll make you feel amazing, not only about picking up women but also about life in general.

Have faith, and more importantly have fun!

Hello there, im new to this to,
all i can say is that were gunna get through this, and i cant wait to share this experience and success with everyone on the site, have you been following the Style life challenge?

Any way, impressed with your hobbies, you seem to be a martial artist like myself, i would love to try Chi gung, i do yoga and Ju jitsu and Brazilian ju jitsu, well thought i would say hello keep up the work

Chow
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