we all know how fickle female attraction is, the correct response has to be to deal with the guy somehow or she will feel slightly impressed by the invading guy. in all cases in the vid the woman looks to the man to repel the guy and in cases where he doesnt she starts looking turned on and confused. If it were caveman times that dude just lost his girl.

Phil, i had you down as someone who is secure and with his shit together

if you dont act how i said, the post before yours from max explains how the girl will lose a little respect for you... and be slightly attracted to the guy.

its nothin to do with insecurity. the reason guys dont react is not coz they are secure, its coz they are scared, dont kid urself

if you wer invincible, and a guy made a cunt out of u infront of ur woman, you would end him.

if u let him away with it for longer than a few seconds u have a problem

Ok ive got the wrong end of this thread

1)if a guy is aware the girl is with you and stands there chatting her up in front of you id tell him to fuck off
2)if a guy is just chatting to you both harmlessely - no problem

It comes down to how much you ahve invested in the girl
BUT - i always look at the girls reaction - if she stands there flriting backat him in front of you - then fuck her off
she has a choice and she is choosing to disrespect you

My ex girlfriends when chatted up by some guy will realise its innapropriate and wouldnt be interested anyway and bin them off to stay with you


One of my exs was a cheryl cole lookalike - we were out in a resturant and she said hi to some guy stood behind us in a que and i felt akwardness between them both
anyway later she goes hes an old friend of mine -- im like why didnt you talk to him i dont mind you know!
same happened in a bar - some guy chatted to her while she was getting some drinks - she came back later and said hes an old friend but was afraid to come over when he saw me with her thinkingid kick his ass
i just said lol why would i be arsed - because seriously im not arsed - aslong as eveyone acts appropriately and with respect for everyone then there is no problem
even if the guys an ex - im not arsed

what have i to be worried about-- shes with me -- but as i said earlier it depends on your emotional investment in the girl-- if you are heavily invested it is a lot harder to remain unaffected- but as you gain self value and confidence you still remain unnaffected.


you can do and act the same way but from 2 different frames

I could kiss a girl in public and hold her hand - difference is i am doing it from an Un-needy confident powerful frame - the girl loves this
another guy could kiss a girl in public and hold her hand - he is doingit from a needy ive got to show everyone shes mines because im afraid to lose her -- girls sees him lower in value


The biggest thing ive learned throughout this whole adventure is
its not how you act its about how you feel inside and who you are internally

if you generate power from within you can do chodey things and still win with girls - none of it matters

im only talkin about a girl im seein... if it was a first date id just say

look mate its a date go away, cum back later and if she is annoying me you can have her

haven't tried chatting up someone elses girlfriend blatently infront of the dude, not the nicest of things to be doing. There's plenty of other girls out there, no need to ruin this guys night/life.

Generally guys won't do shit because you're not all over the girl and you're just being friendly, but, if you're all up on someone's girl you deserve to get a bad reaction from the guy.

If someone came out chatting up my girl (which has happened before) I usually leave him to it and go off and have fun or just out 'game' him. If she's a bitch and is gonna go off with some other guy, fuck her. Whats happened in the past though is he's just some loser and me just having fun and ignoring it seems to 'work' better.

if your leaving your girl stood with a guy u both dont know, there is somethin wrong with u. what about if he is a rapist?? drops somethin in a drink, fucks off with her.

if u feel the need to test ur girlfriend, dont be with her