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I'v been wondering for a while what would happen if you're hitting on a girl and her boyfriend turns out to be there. Always assumed it would instantly get really aggressive/ However, this comedy video shows that once again, unfounded fears exist in my mind. Check out the last approach where beta chode boyfriend offers her up to the more alpha guy, gets completely tooled.

I make a point of hitting up sets with 1 guy 1 girl regularly. Regardless of how blatantly inappropriate it is. It's how I warm up. You realise after a while that it's all in your head. It's often just some random douche instead of a boyfriend (especially in a club), and even if it is the boyfriend most guys lack the balls to do anything aggressive. Provided you're friendly they're blindsided and can't do shit except be friendly back. I've done it dozens and dozens of times and the worst I've ever had is a couple of fuck offs.

if someone tried this shit with me,

the convo would go like this

"Dont fuckin bother yourself dickhead fuck off..."

if he didnt, it start throwin punches.

how anyone allows that shit i dont know

The weird thing is absolutely everyone does allow it. I've done some outrageous shit and never even come close to a fight. Most people avoid getting aggressive at all costs, scared to assert themselves.

I agree with phil.... you need to have some back bone when the reverse happens.

go to liverpool, see how u fare.

i heard yesterday of a lad who got a gun in his chest for just lookin at someones bird in the middle of the newz bar

I also agree with Phil, if I approached myself when I was with a bird I'd probs knock myself out.

True, I normally go out in London where people are probably less likely to kick off.

On the other hand, I've done my regular thing in Newcastle, Glasgow and Boston and there were no problems. I also know a dude who lives in Israel v near Gaza who does the same shit in clubs regularly and he's never had a problem either, and that's a bloody war zone.

Bear in mind I'm not deliberately trying to molest/steal other people's girlfriends. It's all just friendly social shit, if it's a mate or a randomer it can often go somewhere. If it's a boyfriend it rarely does, it's always amicable if you handle it well.

The point is that most people fuck themselves over because they spend all their time looking for an ideal situation instead of taking action. Deliberately throwing yourself into 'tough situations' gets you out of thinking like that, and you realise how much of this is just in your head.

Personally if somone comes up to talk to me and my girl i dont feel threatened, dont need to react

If somone is obviously flirting with my girl and ignoring me, i`ll say somthing like
'are you flirting with my girl'
then id prolly say to my girl ' do you fancy him, why dont you 2 swap numbers'

i think basically id be looking for any excuse to ditch either of them, i would be testing her and giving her enough rope to hang herself

if somone is blatantly being creepy, weird or disrespectful then id tell them to do one. and slap them if necessary
thing is with me knowone ever gets between me and a girl im with-- i give off
'im going to rip your face off vibes' which people pick up on before they even approach

think about this for a second

why test her?? ur the man, there is no fucking way on the planet she is gonna wanna leave with him... thats my view.

a woman wants to know she is protected against shit like this.

to me, your reaction seems like that of most men, getting angry with his girl coz other guys are looking & flirting. if you wanna do it calmly just say

look mate end it or be ended.... i think these guys pick their battles tho!