if you dont act how i said, the post before yours from max explains how the girl will lose a little respect for you... and be slightly attracted to the guy.

its nothin to do with insecurity. the reason guys dont react is not coz they are secure, its coz they are scared, dont kid urself

if you wer invincible, and a guy made a cunt out of u infront of ur woman, you would end him.

if u let him away with it for longer than a few seconds u have a problem