Originally Posted by Refl3x

Ok ive got the wrong end of this thread

1)if a guy is aware the girl is with you and stands there chatting her up in front of you id tell him to fuck off
2)if a guy is just chatting to you both harmlessely - no problem

It comes down to how much you ahve invested in the girl
BUT - i always look at the girls reaction - if she stands there flriting backat him in front of you - then fuck her off
she has a choice and she is choosing to disrespect you

My ex girlfriends when chatted up by some guy will realise its innapropriate and wouldnt be interested anyway and bin them off to stay with you


One of my exs was a cheryl cole lookalike - we were out in a resturant and she said hi to some guy stood behind us in a que and i felt akwardness between them both
anyway later she goes hes an old friend of mine -- im like why didnt you talk to him i dont mind you know!
same happened in a bar - some guy chatted to her while she was getting some drinks - she came back later and said hes an old friend but was afraid to come over when he saw me with her thinkingid kick his ass
i just said lol why would i be arsed - because seriously im not arsed - aslong as eveyone acts appropriately and with respect for everyone then there is no problem
even if the guys an ex - im not arsed

what have i to be worried about-- shes with me -- but as i said earlier it depends on your emotional investment in the girl-- if you are heavily invested it is a lot harder to remain unaffected- but as you gain self value and confidence you still remain unnaffected.


you can do and act the same way but from 2 different frames

I could kiss a girl in public and hold her hand - difference is i am doing it from an Un-needy confident powerful frame - the girl loves this
another guy could kiss a girl in public and hold her hand - he is doingit from a needy ive got to show everyone shes mines because im afraid to lose her -- girls sees him lower in value


The biggest thing ive learned throughout this whole adventure is
its not how you act its about how you feel inside and who you are internally

if you generate power from within you can do chodey things and still win with girls - none of it matters