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lucidfer · 18-10-2011, 06:59 AM

I did start out doing something similar to a bucket list, but not quite.

I've been studying body language from a few favorite actors and films for the last month or so, so the first thing I decided to do was to create a new folder on my laptop that has some high-resolution photos of all-around badasses that I've always liked, preferably in some of their best poses (Clint Eastwood, Harrison Ford, James Dean, Sean Connery etc). These are now my 'life coaches' that I tend to draw inspiration from, but hopefully this list will get my brain more and more used to staying in their invented characters' mindsets and incorporating them into mine.

As for the TV, I watch TONS of films (relates to my career as an animator), so I sorta have a similar problem with my roommate's 40" flatscreen and sitting there all day studying the same films for the 25th time.

Here's what I've done:

1. Ban myself from using the TV unless there's other people watching (similar to you selling yours)

2.Get a 22" screen monitor to connect to your computer/laptop, and have a computer chair at your desk that's workable for maybe 2-3 hours tops, and then it's too uncomfortable to sit in it anymore.

Watch a movie from this setup, and your body will tell you when time is up if your mind forgets. Then go out and do something!

daleinthedark · 18-10-2011, 10:13 AM

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Originally Posted by kowalski

Remember Everything | Evernote Corporation

K that's the dogs danglies - I hate having to fuck around with iPhone notes etc!

Lovefish · 03:09 PM

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Originally Posted by lucidfer

I did start out doing something similar to a bucket list, but not quite.

I've been studying body language from a few favorite actors and films for the last month or so, so the first thing I decided to do was to create a new folder on my laptop that has some high-resolution photos of all-around badasses that I've always liked, preferably in some of their best poses (Clint Eastwood, Harrison Ford, James Dean, Sean Connery etc). These are now my 'life coaches' that I tend to draw inspiration from, but hopefully this list will get my brain more and more used to staying in their invented characters' mindsets and incorporating them into mine.

As for the TV, I watch TONS of films (relates to my career as an animator), so I sorta have a similar problem with my roommate's 40" flatscreen and sitting there all day studying the same films for the 25th time.

Here's what I've done:

1. Ban myself from using the TV unless there's other people watching (similar to you selling yours)

2.Get a 22" screen monitor to connect to your computer/laptop, and have a computer chair at your desk that's workable for maybe 2-3 hours tops, and then it's too uncomfortable to sit in it anymore.

Watch a movie from this setup, and your body will tell you when time is up if your mind forgets. Then go out and do something!

Yeh good call with the body language studying,ive got similar going on posters of Brad Pitt,Bruce Lee, Al Pacino etc dotted around the place.
Also just from recently might i suggest working out/excercising of some sort,ive not built up much body mass yet but i can feel it and because of it plus losing a good bit of fat (i can fit into clothes now i havent been able to wear for over 3yrs!!) i seem to be walking taller and feeling stronger.
Oh and results seem to work for body language 2 haha i see why its so gay now,if you dont have no pussy your not as confident,since saturday ive walked a lil taller,felt a lil happier just been a lil more alpha,because of that result!! more results=more confident body laguage

Ive done the same m8 hour after hour of dvds and xbox i was pretty much like Novas m8 tbh,only i had a gf, i didnt want her but was to scared to leave her.I like your ideas on the non comfort thing and only watching with others,if that works for you do it man

Lovefish · 18-10-2011, 02:35 PM

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Originally Posted by kowalski

I am a super-fan of Evernote. It changed my life and it will change yours.

Among other awesome things it lets you search text within photographs. I no longer keep any receipts, they all get photo'd into Evernote then binned. Permanent storage available to me everywhere and any time.

I might get their Elephant logo as a tattoo.

Peace,

kowalski

Wow this is actually awsome,how have i never heard of this before

I will still stick with the notes also tho.I think when something is tucked away on a program in a computer you can still forget/ignore it easier,but when its up in your kitchen in your face its hard for me to makes excuses not to do it.
You should deffo get the elephant tattoo done on your left bum cheek

lucidfer · 18-10-2011, 07:06 PM

I actually installed that software about a month ago on the tip of a professor... have yet to use it. I'll have to give it a go.

nova · 19-10-2011, 11:08 AM

It's like a Hiphop improve game.

Lovefish · 19-10-2011, 06:24 PM

Wow yeh i can see how much potential Evernote has now ive had a real play around with it.Ive used it everyday since you put that link up

Shame i dont have an android phone,damn stupid windows seven phone useless

Eeerr think ill give the hip hop a miss tho haha

20-10-2011, 11:39 AM

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Originally Posted by Lovefish

Where to start well saturday night i had the most beautiful girl ive ever had the company off cuddled up with me asleep on my couch!! The kind that if i was watching a porno, with her in id happily be wacking one off!!
Just make sure you don't get in the friend zone.. you need to heat it up with her... also, sleeping? Sleep is for the dead. BANG HER!

I sat down with tons of pads of paper and wrote a bucket list,a goals list and how i plan to achieve those goals,strengths list (everyone has a strength that will help you get women find it and use it!!) and i wrote a standards list.This last one was a particular departure as i would just try to get anything,since doing the list ive knocked girls back for sex even had one in my bed, thought about it and got rid!!
Just ensure you don't confuse high standards, with artfully procrastinating

Total honesty,i told that girl on saturday night stuff about myself i rarely tell anyone even grim shit but in a this is the way it was and this is how i am now kinda way.
Careful how much you give away to women. It seem's a real good idea to divulge your deep inner core to a woman, but she will use it to A) fuck with your head and B) fuck with your head (possibly)

No jacking off a few days before going out major help for pushing me out there.
This is good... As long as you are sexually confident you won't blow it when she takes her bra off...

Being a man and thinking i am a man and i should act like a man!! ie saturday I want to go for food I want to go to my friends I want to go back to mine and watch dvds!! rather than what do you want to do

Again.. possible carefully constructed procrastination. Spread the seed. DVDs? The only dvd should be a porno whilst you're bangin a blonde from behind..

oh and KINO wow wow wow this shit is the bomb kicking myself i didnt realize this is one of the main ingredients i was missing out of my game.
I remember you were curious on information about Kino.. I think I posted a link or two. Did you do any more research on it? It's been asked here a few times about how to Kino but I find it hard to explain in a teaching way.

The lay was 110% on!! But i didnt?? I knew id already won.
Procrastination..

I didnt feel i had to validate myself by sleeping with this girl.If she went home and i never saw her again i am a winner,i can do this i can get those girls ive spent so many years dreaming off,its a reality!! its a victory finally after all that frustration haha for me this is something to hold onto to help me move forward when it gets real tough.

Those guys out there still struggling away who havent got any results yet keep at it dont give up,i know sometimes ive wanted to throw in the towel and go back to my ex i dont love,but i never do shit the easy way never have never will.So stick with it,if i can have this kind of result so can you!!!
Funnily enough tho she txt me earlier wanna meet 2mora,me to her are you paying for dinner?! she yeh ok

All in all you are making mega progress mate, keep it up and keep everyone updated here.. always refer to your first posts to see how far you've come!

20-10-2011, 11:40 AM

Also for the record, Android is THE SHIT!!!!!

But note to everybody. Buy spare batteries if your phone drains them like mine.

Lovefish · 20-10-2011, 06:14 PM

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Originally Posted by al_phaD

Also for the record, Android is THE SHIT!!!!!

But note to everybody. Buy spare batteries if your phone drains them like mine.

Alpha D!! where the funk u been man!!!!
Eeerr root it??
lost me already not the most up on technology if its simple i can use it and thats it.I know android is the balls,my m8 said jailbreaking my phone would do the biz?!