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Default 20-10-2011, 11:39 AM

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Where to start well saturday night i had the most beautiful girl ive ever had the company off cuddled up with me asleep on my couch!! The kind that if i was watching a porno, with her in id happily be wacking one off!!
Just make sure you don't get in the friend zone.. you need to heat it up with her... also, sleeping? Sleep is for the dead. BANG HER!

I sat down with tons of pads of paper and wrote a bucket list,a goals list and how i plan to achieve those goals,strengths list (everyone has a strength that will help you get women find it and use it!!) and i wrote a standards list.This last one was a particular departure as i would just try to get anything,since doing the list ive knocked girls back for sex even had one in my bed, thought about it and got rid!!
Just ensure you don't confuse high standards, with artfully procrastinating

Total honesty,i told that girl on saturday night stuff about myself i rarely tell anyone even grim shit but in a this is the way it was and this is how i am now kinda way.
Careful how much you give away to women. It seem's a real good idea to divulge your deep inner core to a woman, but she will use it to A) fuck with your head and B) fuck with your head (possibly)

No jacking off a few days before going out major help for pushing me out there.
This is good... As long as you are sexually confident you won't blow it when she takes her bra off...

Being a man and thinking i am a man and i should act like a man!! ie saturday I want to go for food I want to go to my friends I want to go back to mine and watch dvds!! rather than what do you want to do
Again.. possible carefully constructed procrastination. Spread the seed. DVDs? The only dvd should be a porno whilst you're bangin a blonde from behind..

oh and KINO wow wow wow this shit is the bomb kicking myself i didnt realize this is one of the main ingredients i was missing out of my game.
I remember you were curious on information about Kino.. I think I posted a link or two. Did you do any more research on it? It's been asked here a few times about how to Kino but I find it hard to explain in a teaching way.

The lay was 110% on!! But i didnt?? I knew id already won.
Procrastination..

I didnt feel i had to validate myself by sleeping with this girl.If she went home and i never saw her again i am a winner,i can do this i can get those girls ive spent so many years dreaming off,its a reality!! its a victory finally after all that frustration haha for me this is something to hold onto to help me move forward when it gets real tough.

Those guys out there still struggling away who havent got any results yet keep at it dont give up,i know sometimes ive wanted to throw in the towel and go back to my ex i dont love,but i never do shit the easy way never have never will.So stick with it,if i can have this kind of result so can you!!!
Funnily enough tho she txt me earlier wanna meet 2mora,me to her are you paying for dinner?! she yeh ok
All in all you are making mega progress mate, keep it up and keep everyone updated here.. always refer to your first posts to see how far you've come!
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