Sick. Nice one.
Breaker, appreciate your point of view although I don't agree 100%. But I fully know what you mean and respect it.
Legend, what I am saying, the relationship only got serious after the first 3 months, so I decided she was the only girl I would be with after the first 3 months.
Alpha D you are the only one to have expressed certain beliefs which make a relationship work, thanks for sharing them.

I personally believe that if both of you have the same values, get on socially, and both work on improving the relationship (for example planning fun stuff to do etc) it will work.

I was tired last night and me acting like a bitch getting a bit jealous is out of character, but on the other hand, as Breaker said, it shows I care, so all is good. But, for me I am going to handle my emotions a little better in the future, as I am on my path, I know that I can handle anything and that I am a PUA and can get any girl I want.

Safe

You deluded but good luck!

You're obviously insecure but good luck

To me it all sounds like you are a little needy cee123, and are trying to find rules to stop this from being portrayed. Start thinking about the root of the cause and why you are needy, rather than quick-fix tactics like 'get her jealous' to keep her keen.

Let me give you some advice that I hope will help you. Coming on here boasting about how shit you are towards women is not helping you're case for advice, input, help, suggestions and the general ethics of this site. We do not promote infidelity and if you think this is an acceptable course of action then I wish you luck, but its not the views shared by most members.

...and at a guess I very much doubt 'legend' is insecure

If your ultimate goal is to enter into a relationship by playing the game (as many people do), then it would be wrong to try and establish a set of standard 'rules' on what to do when you enter a period of stability with someone. Once you've reached that sort of stage you've normally built a certain level of mutual understanding with the other person.

Trying to use a set of defined rules that someone else 'thinks' is the right method would be completely wrong. Your circumstances will be different to anyone else out there. My advice would be to just behave on instinct, keeping in mind the need to act in line with the persona you've conveyed to her.

I think what you say is true, but certain things like building good mutual trust, good communication and laying out decent ground rules and talking about your limits and stuff like that will always help.

Jesus this thread is a disaster.

If you're looking for relationship advice you need to look to the mainstream. PUA evolved because the mainstream advice given isn't really about attraction, it's about relationships. There was the mistaken belief that what is right for a relationship is what creates the relationship in the first place - which is generally untrue, what creates attraction is different in many areas.

So, there are two fields of advice now, pua which deals with the creation of attraction and those early stages. And the mainstream, which deals with everything that works in order to maintain a relationship.

Lasting relationships are built upon trust, communication, respect and balance. If you're applying pua to a relationship you're doing pretty much the opposite, you're playing games, creating insecurity, keeping emotional barriers up and attempting to maintain "control".

In order to maintain a relationship two people have to communicate their issues with one another, lasting bonds come from trusting each other with your weaknesses (which we ALL have), relationships are built upon the ability to compromise and balance the problems that arise. And most of all, they're built on mutual respect, the desire not to hurt the other person and keep the balance in order to maintain the relationship.

In a nutshell.

So, given the nutshell we've established above, the natural advice is as follows, fucking talk to her about your problems instead of talking to people on the internet about it. Don't just express your jealousy, it's quite clear that this problem is causing you a great deal of distress as well, you are genuinely worried about losing your relationship otherwise you wouldn't be seeking advice from outside. Tell her how this is making you feel, what's going on and why. If she really cares about you she WILL feel bad for the way it's making you feel. Someone that cares about their partner doesn't want to do anything at all that hurts them. Communication offers the path to a compromise that can solve the problem.

If she simply blows up about it, it's generally a red flag. All you can do is express the way it makes you feel and seek to solve the problem. If she's not willing to find a solution in order to stop hurting you then it's a sign that she doesn't care that much for you. Either way the result is a good one(even if it won't feel like it at the time), you'll discover that she's not compatible with you and move on, or you'll solve the problem and move forwards with things.

Your behaviour, arrogance and idiotic responses here are quite indicative of a lack of maturity, which is probably indicative of a lack of experience and an even greater lack of emotional maturity. Back the fuck up and eat a slice of humble pie. Go read my nice guy's article because you're EXACTLY the kind of person that needs to realise dicks don't get anywhere in the end.

I feel a need to qualify to everyone else here that the effort of this post wasn't really for you, I think you're beyond the help offered here and really just need a good emotional burning to make you mature a little. This post was really for the people reading that might have similar issues but aren't too immature to realise the truths in my post.

You may now commence cognitive dissonance, falsely rationalise why everything I say is wrong and continue the train wreck that is this thread. I won't waste my time with flamebait responses.

I was laughing out loud when I read this.
I was making a point that anyone who says he is a PUA and claims that he can get ANY girl he wants is extremely DELUDED. This is what the so-called MPUA's (Gambler, AFC Adam, Mehow etc) want you to believe. Im surprised after two years that you don't realise how wrong this kind of claim is.

Am I secure? Maybe I am. But I took my Tag Hueur watch to Goldsmith today to get its battery replaced and resealed. I was served by this extremely hot girl (HB10, easy). After chatting a few minutes, I asked her out but she said "unfortunately, I have a boyfriend". Wish I could get ANY girl I want especially this girl.

p.s. Manchester lads: goto Goldsmith in the 1st floor, Trafford Centre. Check this girl Amy out. She's one of the hottest girl I have seen in a long long while. Damned!!
p.p.s. Jay, good post dude.

I was quoted £65, sixty five bastard pounds for Omega Seamaster, there has to be another way???