So I was in the game for about two years and did really well. For the last 6 months I have been seeing this one girl. I have probably been faithful for the last 3 months. All has been good part from last night I released I was acting like a jealous bitch about some guy on her Facebook saying how he was going to take her out every night (and her agreeing) whilst she is out of the country on work (she is there now and has been going out with him).

I realised I fucked up acting like a bitch so went back to my notes about relationships. Below is what I have come up with in the past, if you can add any please do. Also, when a girl is trying to make you jealous why is she doing so?

-Girls really love busy guys
-Girls like guys whom other girls like
-Telling her how much you love her and that you want to
spend the rest of your life with her is of course ( as always ) a big nono
-The less you worry about her, the more attracted to you she will become
-Get them jealous and they will chase you until no end

So much wrong with this post I don't know where to start.

K's post indicates that if someone talks for long enough uninterrupted, they eventually present the solution to their own problem.


Meanwhile:
hmmmm....... uhhhh.... yeeeah...

Lol, she probably is banging him I know.I know all about oneitis too and that's not an issue right now. What I was asking was: For example; Adam Lyons is in a relationship (as he is married). SO does anyone know what (if any) 'rules' he plays by to keep the relationship going strong?

Also Breaker would love to see your views on this.

who gives two shits about what Adam Lyons is doing in his relationship! Or anyone else! Sheesh...!

Rebus, he teaches it. So I'm asking if anyone has any tips on what he teaches. Surely the goal is to sarge, meet loads of girls, pick the right one and then enter into a relationship?

If not for you that's what Lyons goal was and thats what mine is. So, does anyone out there know what standard 'rules' to use? Similar to the ones I have already posted....

Seeing as you asked (for the record I'm in a relationship myself at the moment).


First of this makes you sound like douche who dosn't give a fuck about the girls feelings. Not cool.

Who keeps notes on how to have a relationship? that's just weird.


To summarize relationships do not have a set of rules, they are personal and tailored to the two people in them. When I'm with someone the last thing I wanna do is start second guessing what I'm doing, change who I am, run "relationship game" or any of that shit. I much prefer just to put my normal genuine self across and be accepted for it, if she dosnt like that then I wouldnt want a relationship with her.

The only advice I would give for relationships, would be similar advice I would give for life generally.

Show respect, be honest and don't compromise yourself.

Im trying to digest the statement above. I think what you trying to say was you cheated in the first 3 months of the relationship. If I am right, I guess you get what you deserve. This girl is doing what you were doing to her....!

This relationship isnt going any where mate. If she wanted to be with you, she wouldnt have entertained this guy and made it public on FB. From my own experience, there is no way a relationship can get stronger once there is cheating going on. Best you end it before she does.

Rules to make a relationship work?

Communication. Talk to each other about everything.
Ground rules. Set the ground rules. let her live her life. But make it absolutely clear that IF she does cheat on you, you won't accept it, and you will fuck her off immediately.

make it clear what you will and will not tolerate with respect to her and other men.

Also, make it clear that you will continue to have friends both men and women and she will not stop you or make you change your lifestyle.

Be honest with yourself and with her. If you think you can't remain faithful, tell her and explain why. Maybe she will suprise you with wanting a threesome