I want to point out something that i think is important to understand

This thread has been discussed many times but i want u to know my own opinion about it

Probably everyone knows that how u feel is actually more important than how u look, and everyone knows that if u look better, u feel better ! U can not be more confident just because u read two lines from mystery's book saying 'Be more confident and u will be happy'. U will just be going and consciously telling urself 'Ok i need to be confident now and i will be cool', and this really sucks and it doesn't really help... Also everyone knows that ur inner issues or let's call it the inner game is what ur confidence is based on. But does everyone know how to build a strong personality from the inner point of view ? Watching David DeAngelo's inner game ? No !

The pickup artists who published their books always claimed to say that looks are not that important, and here we get to my point ! Why do they say that looks are not that important ? Because they want all people to buy their books, they want to earn money, money, money and money once again !
Once you are fat, you will not have hot babes. I am sorry, but this is how it works like, this is my opinion.

And looks are not important juse because from the physical point of view, as i said if u look better, u feel better, ur health is better and ur more confident, u really got a strong physical background to hold a strong personality. Maybe my post sounds weird to you so i will try to explain it using this quote 'A redneck can not drive a lamborghini and never will' .. u get me guys ? Let's say an ugly fat redneck who never had sex would win a lottery ( 5 million pounds ), he will start dressing better, driving a better car, he will look better but how would he feel if he went to a crowded club full of toned guys ? Do you guys really think that those HB10's are really SO stupid that they would fuck that redneck !? Those HB10's are also people, they also use the fucking logic. So the conclusion is that if u want to be cool, confident guy. Care about urself the best way u can ! Don't think that just ' bla bla bla' with ur tongue will get u anywhere ...

Biggie Smalls = Fat, Black, from a poor background - got loads of hot pussy. Your point sucks. If you want a good inner game product RSD's Blueprint is worth watching, I'm watching DavidD's at the moment and it's just plain weird, like some sort of holistic therapy session.

being black and having poor background is not what i was talking about, this makes no difference, dont be a fucking racist ! and deangelo was just an example, all the inner game products suck, thoery in the inner game doesnt help at all...

i dont need the blueprint or whatever ... lol thank u

Since when is describing someone's colour and background racist. I mentioned it as it's another limiting belief and that looks (i.e skin colour) or any other limiting belief such as background will not determine how much pussy you get.

I bet you I can find 20 people on this forum that would agree that the Blueprint improved their inner game substantially, in fact I would go as far to say not one person on here has watched it and not felt their inner game improved as a result.

u didnt get my point at all then ... if u r FAT 120 kgs, have big stomach, ugly face ... lol i would like to see u with the HB10's ... is someone here like that ?

Big doesn't not constitute a good arguable defence. He is famous! How many people that fat who are penniless do u know who regularly fuck 10s

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I don't know why I'm arguing this, I really couldn't care less, I weight 10 stone lol. Final thing I will say is that I do know guys that are big and not famous or rich and consistently do better than guys that are slim and good looking.

Yea the more attractive you are the more confidence you will have naturally, and it may be easier. Look at Neil Strauss!! He was not attractive at all before he discovered PUA community.

Attraction is not only physical! Of course you have to be physically attractive to have woman find you physically attractive... But then there's also many ways you can increase your physical attractiveness, with body language an eye contact... Even little things like this will make people perceive you as more attractive than before!

Survival and replication value!!!'

If brad Pitt was a tramp would woman want him??? Noo!!!

I understand what you say thoh that the more attractive you are the more natural confidence you will have. The more you gain approval from others the mOre confident you will become. School days really define your adult personality I think.

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Actually, I'd like to refute this, though I'll probably be called out as having bias as I do still work. The company I previously worked for (one of the "big 6" as we called them) never had any alternative motivation other than sincere belief when it came to saying "looks aren't that important".

While I fucking hate the lack of ethics in the industry I'll defend them on this point because it simply isn't true, from my inside experience. Yes they do want money, money, money, but they sincerely believe that looks aren't a big deal. And I personally think that they're right.

It sounds to me like you're trying to find things to blame other than yourself. Wasn't it blueprint that said a competition between you and an absolutely stunning guy will always be won by you if you're just 1% sharper than he is? I'm pretty sure that's roughly what was said. Isn't blueprint regarded as the bible here?

Looks get you noticed quicker and get your foot in the door but if someone around you is better at building a connection and eliciting emotion from her then they will beat you, every single time. I'd say that the times looks do win versus someone better at everything else would be the times where she is ONLY looking for looks, yes there are a small percentage of incredibly shallow girls, that's the thing though - they're a small percentage.

Why would you want such a shallow girl anyway?

Same goes for money and gold diggers.

looks plays a key role in attraction in my opinion. its by no means the be all and end all but certainly IS something a girl looks for in a mate, and lets not kid ourselves it is one of the MAIN things. Sure JUST being good looking will not get you much pussy, in the same way JUST being funny or JUST being nice wont get you laid either, again the same principles apply. They're important principles, but other characteristics must be present and that varies depending on the girl.