Hey all, I registered on this forum a while back, then got a gf and lost interest in PUA stuff..

This post isn't so much about picking up women, but more about life in general.

Whenever I am in a social situation, I always think "what will people think of me" before I act or speak. This is annoying me.

I want to be able to just NOT worry about how I look or come across to everyone, WITHOUT the use of alcohol lol.

Is this some kind of genetic thing? Or am I just being crazy. I'm not paranoid or anything like that. I just tend to shy away in fear of looking an idiot.

Dan

Inner development is an emotional state where you know that you are and you dont need external definitions of who you are, try this vid, relax into it and by the end of it you may gain something. He's showing u that you exist firstly without language and without need and are already fully formed in your core and have been since birth.



The guys a cunt tho Lol

The thread & danieljamie says "Always worry what others think"...
Legend says "Dont".

I thought I'd conquered this but it always seems to come back when I'm in groups where I only know one person and they all know each other. The worst thing is when you start to recognise it and by thinking about it you further into your head.

I think I just need to realise how truly awesome I am, sometimes I have moments of weakness..

I have been watchin "how i met your mother" lately, and the guy who says "Suit up!" seems to have the right idea about life lol.

What do you guys do when you start thinking about it?

Thanks

Dan

True story

So the answer is, to stop thinking about things, and just do it.

To stop worrying about things, and just be awesome.

I will try this. Thanks

i used to really worry about what other people were thinking too!
especially what others would think, if i were to walk up and open a set...
but after a bit of field work, i realised that if you just walk up and open with enough confidence, people would just assume that you already know the set, and think nothing of it!

if you still have problems, then take note of how you would approach friends, in terms of body language, and confidence... and just immitate this in the field.

it helped me, when i realised that other people, are too busy worrying about themselves to even notice, although critisize what you are doing

i hope this helps

Go watch Blue Print that will melt your mind a bit and make you wonder what the fuck you ever worried about! lol

Yeah that does help Thanks!