Gotta love 'em.
I have had quite a few friends with benefits, but they never really developed into anything. Mostly because I never expect them to last more than a few months.
However I'm currently friends with benefits with an old friend of mine who has been into since like forever. But I like things to change you see. Was wondering wheter you guys could give me your two pence on the following. Much love.
We got together last summer after her break-up (yea
), and we've been going at it to this very day. We've had a few fights and "break ups" along the way, but always ended back together. I know this is a
PUA forum, but I wanna try having a relationship with this one since we have incredibly a lot in common, and shes very fun to be with.
The thing is, I secretly want a relationship, but she doesn't. She asks me regularly to check that we're not going into a relationship, and I assure her that we're not (trust issues apparently). She likes things the way they are. When we're together we're sort of like a couple and do couple stuff, so I don't know why she doesn't want to hook up. It doesn't bother me much, things are cool the way they are.
Apparently she wants to enjoy her single life, which she thinks she has.
I'm seeing a deadlock. I'm not a pro-
PUA but I would appreciate some advice about the situation so that I learn a bit from it. If this advice helps me hook up with her even better.
I'm guessing.....freeze out? (Or I could be a hilarious-jerk again, donno why I stopped doing that.)