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Originally Posted by camarda
so what are your experiences with guys you fancy? where is it all dropping off?
you approaching? you getting into convo? you escalating? you progressing it to what you want out of the interaction?
do you know what you want? you want a boyfriend, you want a fuck (yes with the guys you fancy).
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I don't think I'd have much trouble hooking up with average looking guys (after all they are guys), I was just wondering what can be done to hook up with the 10's when usually they have a whole slew of other 10's after them.
As for whether I'm looking for a relationship or a hook-up, I'd say both.
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Originally Posted by kowalski
Can you evidence the assumption within your claim, i.e. that how attractive someone is and how open to casual sex someone is are somehow connected and inversely proportional qualities?
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Nah, I don't think it's possible to prove that anymore than it would possible to prove that thoughts exist....the main reason being that how attractive someone is can be subjective.
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Originally Posted by Phil
Ill be honest i haven't read through the whole thread coz all the arguments bore the shit out of me... Who cares who is right! However my belief is YES
it will work on men coz most of the concepts work on human need for validation and Boost of ego.
If someone values u more than themselves... they want a peice of ur action..whether it sexually or whatever
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I think you're right because like I've said there are unattractive guys I see who are with very attractive ones, and usually has nothing to do with the unattractive guy being wealthy, etc...I'd say it's purely game.
Which is why I'm starting to believe that gay men would fall inbetween straight men & women on the looks-to-personality ratio, in other words I think gay men are a mixture of both (but mainly relying upon looks). I'd just like to take advantage of the personality/qualification part to its max.