You may have changed in the past 3 weeks Legend but im just going off what i know of you in the past 3 months man . You've never once said to me ... i want to better myself , i want to change or i want to connect with new people . All ive ever heard you say is , "im going round to this girls house tonyt , i wanna fuck her" or "im chatting to this girl on facebook , trying to sleep with her innit" or "ive slept with these 2 women in the past couple of weeks" . I just got the impression that this is all you wanted to do ... Mind you if your starting to realise that this isn;t just about sleeping with women , im proud of you man , its always good to see someone realise the bigger picture esp when it comes to what we do here !

Word to Kowalski's mum ! Nuff said ...... In fact that was so insanely spot on i might break down and cry ... Get in the field pussy's

Much love to the K on this one

Hi Guys,

just my $0.02 on this. I understand where everyone is coming from here and why Kowalski and Swype dont do single parties and online dating as those sorts of things mean that your actually looking for someone to change that status from single to couple/relationship/married etc, which i am. So definatly a different stance to most of you guys.

I'm just trying every medium possible, online dating, speed dating, going out with you guys sargin, Salsa classes, just to give me the biggest chance to find the right woman to share my life with.

I think the interesting things are that you meet differnt sorts of women doing differnet methods as i know the girls i meet at speed dating are professionals that doing get chance to go out on a friday/ saturday nights or don't like meeting guys that way, the girls at salsa are different as are the one's i meet while i'm out with you guys.

While on the internet i haven't had lots of quality dates, it does give you an opertunity to get to know people 1st rather than just going for looks first. I don't want to put a curse on a girl i'm chatting with at the moment, but i've never chatted to someone (man or woman) who shares so much in common with me and has a very similar view on the world (hates and likes the same stuff), so if she is a cute in person as she is on her photo's then (AFC comment coming up!) this has every chance of turning into something really good, fingers crossed :-).

I would like to get a decent post from Legend to see how he does Facebook sarging as i havent tried this avenue.

Retro

Swype as much as I love you my man, I cant believe Im listening to this garbage. Im confused. Maybe I did say that, but we all said it. How could I be any different than you or Jynxy or Sapmi or Anthony? When we goto the field, the ultimate goal is an f-close, maybe via a number close or a kiss close. Yes we get better with our social skills but ultimately we are after the f-close. Im sorry, correct me if Im wrong. Or maybe majority of guys here are in the field to be socially awesome, whatever that means now...!

In terms of social skills....how is doing online sarging any different? Like I met the girl tonight, does that not improve my social skills with Im with her, trying to get to know her...the internet is just a tool to get close to her. Like the club is a tool to meet girls too..! Maybe I lack social skills with girls - agreed. Doesnt mean Im not socially awesome...! With my job, I deal with high powered clients, I run multi-million pound projects, I do presentations to executives...! As u said enuff said, I wont comment anymore on this BUT I will help the guys who want to learn online sarging with some constructive description how to go about oing this...!

I would say K pretty much responded as i would . And i have to make this clear right now ... I dont do this just to fuck ... That is a horribly dead end view to have of things my friend , your implying we do everything we do for the ultimate goal of sex , whereas it may be for a select few if you ask alot of these guys they will wholeheartedly disagree .

It's actually quite depressing to think that some people in this community are in it solely for the purpose of sex ...

Ask any of the Manchester guys and i challange anyone to find one of us who can say that meeting up with us all has not enriched our lives in alot of ways .

Without this community i wouldn't have met K , Rood , Marc , Retro and Legend who i consider all good friends !
I woudln't now have all the girls who yes i have hooked up with but now are in themselves good friends
I woudln't have been out on many nights having hysterics as Retro salsa dances , as Jynxy flicks cigarettes in peoples hair and watch Marc makeout with his Day 2 after much ... MUCH persuasion from myself .

This shit has enriched my life in so many ways ! Sex is just one of the many perks of what we do ... So no not garbage at all , i think everyone should always strive to be more open minded , even me !

Jamesy, Sorry mate about rubbishing your comment. I know what you saying and you are right in your opinion. As much as I am PERSONALLY believe about my online sarging. But yes I want to be good on the field like the likes of you, Jynx, K etc etc.
After all said and done, I love you man...! I respect you and every1 on this community. Without you guys, I wont have gone out on Saturday and Sunday last week.
Right if Im not out tonight, I will write about online sarging, field tested, for those who are interested.