Hey guys new to the forum been trying to be a bit more confident and working in a bar and serving hot girls all day really has helped but I need advise.

Right I was working yesterday night and was serving these three girls though one of them was standing behind the other two (Girl C). I was having a laugh with them while getting there drinks and after I served them the two in front (Girls A & B) said the (Girl C) liked me and thought I was fit Didn't do much bout it as I couldn't see her. (Girl B & C) left and then (Girl A) said before leaving she really does like you, then later on I got a good glimpse of her (Girl C) and was instantly like GOD DAMMM WHAT HAVE I DONE! So anyway then one of the girls (Girl A) was up at the bar again and I told her her friend was gorgeous and she asked do I want her number so I took it.

And this is my problem I don't know what to say as her friend gave me her number and I didn't speak to her at all.... :-/ Would seem a bit creepy no...?

Anybody help me out????

Thanks

Text her and say "Hey, its XSpacedX. I'm the bartender from last night you thought was fit, your friend gave me your number. Did you have a good night last night?"

Fairly simple, it doesn't have to be anything crazy or wacky. After a couple of texts ask her name, then just take it from there.

cheer buddy helped messaged her and we have started talking not sure where it will go but Im trying to play it cool

texts need to be fun. give her a reason to want you to text again.

Cheers for the confidence booster man I just need to learn start up a conversation more without being shy when they give me a compliment I never know what to say or how to react... :-/

You can thank them for the compliment and be grateful for it & take some pride from it, compliment them back, appear modest & play it down, or be a bit playful and big yourself up further or give the girl a teasing/fun/cheeky remark.

Its situation dependant. How would you want to react to it, how is it that you would like to respond? Thats the most important thing.

Yeah to be honest I can never think of things fast enough to say it but I will remember that though.

I want to come across as fun/confident/cheeky which I think Im making progress to some degree but I want to also learn how to approach them after I've had abit of fun while serving them and furthering my game..

In that case, one step at a time. Try just being thankful for the compliment and shopwing your appreciation for it & see how that goes; putting being playful & cheeky to one side for a moment - there's nothing wrong with showing some humbleness & that your a decent person. Over time try experimenting with other things - being cheeky/playful and what not. Everyones different and only you can figure out what works best for you.

Yeah I get you though one thing that when I complimented a girl she turned round and said awk that was nice and for me thats a conversation killer I been thinking to what I should have replied and thought of " well a bit cheesy to be honest but there you go" haha and thats all I can think off..?

Type in the first thing that comes to mind as soon as you see the text, read it back after 10 minutes and see if you like it send it. Maybe that will help...

And make it fun man, she knows why you're texting her. Just seal the deal and ask her out.