My problem is messaging the girl I'm fine I get the number but when it comes to texting it always ends the same way I think I sound uninteresting and boring the conversation dies and they don't message back.

Is there any way to rectify this when it happens?

You know you can sound boring if you want to. But before it dies down ask em out, you really have nothing to lose.

If you think you're bad at texting download Tinder swipe right to everyone and practise on there and don't worry about the outcome.

I have tinder but not sure it works on my phone I could swipe right all day still never get any matches anymore and the times I have in the past they just dont reply to my first message.... I do t take it to heart though would be nice to be given a chance...

Photos are most important on there. I have one of myself, one with friend and two of me doing something cool.

I assumer you don't really practice game either?

I have at least 5 photos on there but none with friends though.

I've been wanting to practice game for a while but heres the truth I wouldn't say Im socially awkward but I dont really have many friends and dont go out very much because of this, I find it hard to get in that friend zone where friends are alway texting you or letting me know when they are going out I know quite alot of people but none on that real friendship level so basically I would be perfectly comfortable practicing game with a wing men... haha

The only way you'll make friends is by asking whats happening, or invite people out yourself. You can also make a couple of friends through game. I can't really help unless I know why you're on this forum

Im on this site to better myself. Ive always settled with normal looking girls that I know I could do better and always got into the relationships I know I'm not unattractive as I get compliments from girls quite alot its just when it comes to girls that are 8's, 9's and 10's Im shy and cant seem to attract them.

so basically Im here to start to learn game I want be that guy who can walk up to any girl and just start up a conversation.

Any help would be great though this isn't the first time I've looked into this I've watched videos read articles on the Internet but I want to really devote myself this time and being a bar tending is a plus also

If you can attract and fornicate with girls already, you don't really need to learn game. You just gotta keep pursuing girls you find attractive and you'll get naturally better with those girls too.

Just go out and practice, that'd be a good place to start.

That can be done by anyone. Confidence is the key. The more you step out of your initial comfort zone, the more experience you will have and more confident you'll become.

You dont need to be 'that guy' - that guy who dictates the night club, that guy who has an abundance of girls, etc.. The first point of call is to be realistic; you haven't got a genie friend who can change you to be exactly 'that guy' so theres no point in setting an unobtainable bench mark. Everyone has the potential to do and be better, some of the time they even exceed their own expectations. I believe that comes from within; self improvement. Work on a varied amount of characteristics/traits/etc.. and change them to what you believe is the very best that you want to achieve. The knock on effect from doing this is far greater than just working solely in 1 area.

For example, Im not into walking upto a girl and being like "you're rad youu". I could, easily but this is not really something I want to persue. However, me simply working on other areas of my life has had a knock on effect that has actually helped me to become better at day game/yad stops.

No point in working on only 1 area; picking up girls (or whatever) if you haven't already got your shit together.

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