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Summer Junky · 02-02-2010, 12:01 AM

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Originally Posted by Dolphin786

Im in this to eventually meet someone who will be my life partner and help me be my best self. Its hard to let someone like that go and daunting to think about moving on to the next one.

Maybe that's why you messed up with that girl. When you go in with this mindset then your'e putting a hell of a lot of value on your interactions, and therefore a hell of a lot of pressure on yourself.

I know this cos I'm in this for the same reasons. I wanna find an awesome girl to have a deep and meaningful relationship with, because I've never had that. This really used to show in my interactions with beautiful women, and I would just come across as really anxious and would go deep inside my head.

After been in this for six months now, I've come to the realisation that, if I want to meet an awesome girl that is proper stunning and 100% gf material (you know the kind I'm talking about) I need to get out of this mindset.

nova · 02-02-2010, 12:17 PM

I think Summer Junky is right. You need to try and take things slower also. It's sounds like you 'burnt out' with this particular girl fella, dating her so much in the space of a few days is going to put pressure on not just you but her. I try my hardest to take things one day at a time.

SnowLeopard · 03-02-2010, 02:44 AM

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Originally Posted by Dolphin786

Burning out..

Guys, I feel burnt out… Been doing this since September and I feel really low today, really drained and empty.

Has anyone else had this, its fucking with my head big time.

Think I know the cause, I basically fucked up seeing this girl, we had an intense week last week but Friday night I acted very chodey and it was weird.. I know I fucked it up but a small part of me wants to try and get it back on, I hate giving up on something.

I’m supposed to have a day 3 with another girl tonight and a f close has been explicitly communicated by her but I don’t know if I want to as I feel so drained…

The effort seems like a mountain to climb at the moment, and im tired.

Anyone been there before?

Perhaps an idea would be to slow down, and ask yourself, why does it feel like work instead of rejuvenating pleasure?

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Take a look at that, because it sounds like your burned out, and it is very coommon these days.

However, personally I believe it is because you see this like work instead of pleasure, and that you´re as such not really allowed to take a break.