Yes undoubtly. I do it too.

Just make sure you dont go into your head creating sexual tension in lines where thete isn't any. Its likely to spook.

@Serendipity

I've not read all the replies but I'd bet you are trying to move conversation forward logically, and are focused on outcome. By which I mean in case it's not clear, that you are saying "A" which logically leads to saying "B" which ultimately leads to a shag.

That will put pressure on you to keep hitting the "steps" on the way to the "outcome", and will make you judge yourself harshly at each "stage".

I'd suggest trying to have much more of a laugh and taking the pressure off yourself. Silliness is great, the less seriously you can take yourself, her, and what you are doing, the better.