16-01-2010, 03:42 PM
I want to mention two points here.
Firstly, it seems to me that this guy is a classic wannabe alpha male. He is imposing his reality onto others rather than drawing them in with his own value. What's more, his apparent social ineptitude (he's pissed a lot of people off and acts like a prick towards other guys) means that he will be easy to break down. You say he physically dragged your target away from you? This is unacceptable and you need to tell him so. Not in a confrontational way, but in a way that leaves him in no doubt.
Secondly, telling girls how much of a douche he is (however true this might be) is not a socially awesome thing to do. As an SA guy, you should be giving value to others, not taking it away and besides, girls aren't stupid - they know a cunt when they meet one. You need to concentrate on chilling out and not getting worked up about these incidents. Like you said, you let it go because the place was chock full of crumpet, but if you found his behaviour unacceptable, you need to tell him so.
It's just advice, fellas. Do whatever the FUCK you wanna do
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