Over a year ago a friend of mine was seeing this guy (Lets call him Dick). From the momment i met Dick i could tell we wanted to be the AMOG of ANY group and did what ever it took; unfortuntly he didnt go by doing this the right way and made a lot of enemy's, including me. My friend never listened to me about how he wasn't what he made out to be (dont get me wrong i dont want to interfer in any ones game but lets just say he was creepy) untill a couple of months later when he just became a phsyco and really posesive about her.

Recently i have just moved to the area where he lives and see him out regulary in my favorite Sarging club's. One of the first times i saw him out i was in a set with a HB9! When i left it alone to create a push-pull routine Dick was straight in there, now me and the HB9 have become good friends so i gave her advise a few days later to stay clear of Dick Even though she did seem intrested at first. A couple of weeks later the HB9 introduces me to one of her friends, a HB8, we get chatting and theres good kino going on. But before i no it Dick has pulled the target phyically away from me and is now running his game on her! I just let it go as the club was pretty full of HB's that night.

During the festive hoilday i meet another HB8, things go well as i no one of her friends so she puts in a good word. But then Dick arrives this time fully cockblocks me and open's rotuine while im standing there! My friend then starts convosation with me and i advise her that Dick isnt good enough for her mate so she pulls her away and we all leave the club. I have seen this girl since but only once as she isnt big on facebook or txting. To me this would be a sign of her not intrested but the second time i saw her we kiss closed again and she said she was looking forward to seeing more of me.

Time has passed and iv let it go as i have other things to with my life and other girls to sarge. But then yesterday i heard a vry intresting story, The HB8 was now seeing Dick! How and when this happend i dont no but he took it right from under my nose!

So please..... How the fuck do i stop this from happening again? or will I constently be a set up routine for Dick!

I want to mention two points here.

Firstly, it seems to me that this guy is a classic wannabe alpha male. He is imposing his reality onto others rather than drawing them in with his own value. What's more, his apparent social ineptitude (he's pissed a lot of people off and acts like a prick towards other guys) means that he will be easy to break down. You say he physically dragged your target away from you? This is unacceptable and you need to tell him so. Not in a confrontational way, but in a way that leaves him in no doubt.

Secondly, telling girls how much of a douche he is (however true this might be) is not a socially awesome thing to do. As an SA guy, you should be giving value to others, not taking it away and besides, girls aren't stupid - they know a cunt when they meet one. You need to concentrate on chilling out and not getting worked up about these incidents. Like you said, you let it go because the place was chock full of crumpet, but if you found his behaviour unacceptable, you need to tell him so.

if your state is being affected when he appears on the scene this will project unconsiously across to the girls your with and increase there curiosity about him, pay attention to how your emotions change when you see Dick.

Dude, simple solution - dance off.

Show this punk he aint got shit on you, or you'll never live it down.

Yeah thats a good way to look at it i guess.
Cheers guys.
Dance off it is!