Hey Munky

have you ever heard the saying - "you either use it... or lose it"

This is simply a case of you not doing it enough dude - if anything in life is scary / difficult - it's simply because we havent done it enough..

Why people don't do game or whatever? Fear - we are all affected by it at times -so I'm not assaulting your manliness - I've had periods ofsitingback, and the fear grows....

Ultimatley where you are is a good place - pains a good motivator, when you get to the point when the pain of not getting laid is greater than the percieved pain of rejection - you'll take action, use some different openers, find a wing to helpspur you on etc...

Getting a wing is probably the one thing that will help the most - then get yourself out to clubs, daygame and run some game on all these hot chics at the airport

REMEMBER - you either use it... or lose it - good luck

(and agree with Royal on beng socal generally - build it up bite by bite)

And dont get demotivated by getting rejected.

I've been out a few times and i feel depressed if my chat goes from good to shite and i miss out on giving the best account of myself. After a bad attempt i feel like wanna go home at times! But you just got to fight it and soon enough you'll not give a shit if you do press the self destruct button. When you do come across a girl who digs you, it feels mint. So remember how that feels, thats my motivation, knowing that i can do it!

Plan a night out with your friends/sargers - pimp up, feel good about yourself and go out to enjoy yourself. Once you're out enjoying yourself and having fun - wanting to start Gaming the girls will feel natural - and you'll be in the right frame of mind to approach. And when the initial AA kicks in (which it will) you stick to the three second rule....what's the worst that can happen?!

Good luck Munky...I expect a Post soon telling everyone how you went out and pulled! :-)