From the Ground up

[Ari Gold]

Ok,

So i have just joined the forum, see my post in the introductions if anyone is keen to get the back ground info.

So i'm starting from the begining, i need to first of all to get over my approach anxiety that has built back up over the last few years. My strategy to do this is the following. The next 4/5 times I am out i am gonna go with a smash and grab technique. I am gonna try and open as many girls I feel I can and eject pretty soon after say about 3/4 minutes. So i want to have lots of successful opens where I can be in and out so the later part of my game does not screw up and affect my confidence. I may also make a number of them Jealous if they see me talking to other girls.

I will of course try to number close, hence the grab, and see how it goes. Anyway I'm sure their are loads of views as to whether this is a good approach or not but hey that's why I joined this group.

Any advice greatly appreciated.

Let battle commence

[Hustler25]

I say go for it mate! ejecting after about 3/4 minutes is pretty good going! Most guys first starting out (Me included back when) would eject after a matter of seconds!! let alone go for a number close as well! If you do this as you say 4/5 times initially approaching as many girls as you can, forcing yourself to stay in set for that amount of time and then going for the number you will get success at a quick pace. BUT only if you do commit yourself to this and then raise the bar.

[Tom]

I wouldn't go out with the mindset that 'I have to eject after 3-4mins'. If it's going well stay there! If not eject maverick!

[Summer Junky]

This will do you a lot of good, but setting time constraints for yourself is pretty pointless i think. As Tom has already said, if you feel comfortable and the words are spinning freely, then stay in set. If not, then do one!