I Haven't Dated Anyone In Months!
 

I need to get back on the scene again.

I don't really go clubs so I guess thats pretty much out the question.

I do however work at an airport with hundreds of gorgeous passengers.

I just don't know how to give myself a push and talk to these girls..

I've been feeling alittle shitty past few months so haven't done any approaching.

I don't have a problem with talking to them, I just can't be bothered at times.

How can I get that inspiration to start me off again??

Ok, I'm not gloating here and if it comes across like this then apologies but I get told I'm a good looking bloke and do get checked out by girls but I lack that urge to pursue anything..

Also when I chat to girls, I go in cocky but not arrogant...Is this a good way?

Any suggestions will be helpful.

Thanks

P.S. Does anyone have any good openers working in an airport environment??

So you never feel demotivated??

Its not approach anxiety..Maybe it is slightly..

Mate it just feels like I have no openers!

I can engage them in conversation but I need to start it...

I really don't like the canned stuff because most of my conversation is not scripted after

Then don't start with openers just use whatever comes into your head welcome to the natural way :D

Just say, "Hey I'm Munky. I'd love to wear you round my face like a feedbag."

Try that out 100 times and I bet you'll get one who's responsive. She'll be a keeper!

Otherwise you could try absorbing the knowledge from some credible pickup ebooks and articles, find a wing and begin practising both day and night. If you haven't had pu55y in a while then you're motivation should be through the roof!

But I like working with a funny opener..

It throws me in at the deep end as most of my chat after is spontaneous anyway..

I dunno man...It just feels like I've got nothing to offer...

It's just a phase because I hardly feel like this

Feel so demotivated.

I dunno how to explain it.

I know what you mean here Munky - I'm kind of on the same wavelength at the moment. The last couple of times I've been out I've just not felt like hitting on girls at all - in fact, the other night I pretty much brushed off a brunette 8 who was throwing herself at me, simply because I couldn't be bothered.

It's not good. I reckon a good night of sarging will do the trick. I'm going to force myself to go out, get pimped up, and approach loads and loads of girls. I hope I get rejected too, just so I can learn from it and have something to work with in those moments of solitude. It's been a couple of week since I went out intending to pick up random girls, and a week since my flirtation with day game at the freshers fair, I need to get back in the saddle.

Try it dude, it might make you feel better.

Yeh you're right man.

Just need to get back on it again.

Just need to start hitting more bars.

Forget the techniques. It sounds like you have the common case of "fear of rejection" and a lack of confidence. You need some good, old fashioned CONFIDENCE and BOLDNESS in your system. The best way to BUILD IT is to spend more time being social. From now on, at work, make it a point to be social with MANY females...you can even do this with all women--from the 10's to the 1's. Obviously you're not trying to "bang" old or unattractive women, but the point is, you will gain confidence with women. For the next few weeks, make it a point to smile and say "Hello" to most woman you see, especially if she gives you eye contact. You will subconsciously train your mind to place LESS importance on her reaction. You'll also realize on a deeper level that there are billions of women on the planet and it matters much more what you think about yourself. People usually treat you in accordance to how you treat yourself.

Forget openers too...be situational. Anything canned will sound rehearsed. It's not WHAT is said...its HOW its said. In the meantime, workout, eat right, make sure your wardrobe is "crispy" and do whatever else it takes to increase your confidence.

Check out this vid I made which you may find helpful: TwitVid - @flyness fellas! An instructional video on how to be the ass hole that women want

Good luck!

just walk around knowing your the best mother fucking good looking bastard in the place, if your wairing a uniform pretend your a customer relations repersentative and open with 'hi how have you found your experiance with whatever airways' be posative dude grow some balls.